5/5/13

Still the news is exciting. would BN win or PR win... 2.5 hrs to results.

A hearty meal with the Bongs. CHong. at geylang no sign board dinner

It was an  enjoyable day with Dad watching movie, THE call..
he must have been happy that his little daughter is fed up and has unbottled the pent up frustration..  I was sharing with Mj dad the downside of his mum. N their so called family dish.. pineapple and pig intestine. unable to take it n they were telling me it was the best. I should learn to cook the nigao tofu hakka.. to impress upon m mil. wahahah.
Few tips to counter. learn to accept other ppl flaws. learn to live in harmony with in laws. learn to be a nicer wife and caring person.

its 4 months to marriage n i m reconsidering is he a best decison of my life. will i live in peace n harmony n i would just let bong n wang brothers ride over me like a ball of houseflies. i m so damn pissed n i shall take time to consider carefully.

Prewedding jitters. potential mil issues. overly kaypo mil.  unhygenic environment.. mouldy looking rice cooker. roaches kitchen. unreliable husband to be and a overbearing mil.


[12:07:48 AM] sng samantha: i m so mad at the mummy boy
[12:07:58 AM] James Poh: y?
[12:07:59 AM] sng samantha: i m seriously reconsidering if its a wise decision
[12:08:10 AM] sng samantha: or just cancel the wedding or postphone the food tasting
[12:08:19 AM] James Poh: how come?
[12:09:11 AM] sng samantha: its just his mother
[12:09:15 AM] sng samantha: i dunno y shes like iras
[12:09:19 AM] James Poh: hmmmmm then?
[12:09:22 AM] sng samantha: ask me all sort of nonesene questions
[12:09:38 AM] sng samantha: n half the time i m asking the man to bridge n he says tell her urelf if u r n t happy
[12:09:44 AM] sng samantha: first was the dowry
[12:09:50 AM] sng samantha: then it was abt salary
[12:09:56 AM] sng samantha: ask how much do i draw
[12:09:59 AM] sng samantha: how much allowance i give
[12:10:03 AM] sng samantha: how much bonus  have
[12:10:10 AM] sng samantha: n finally how much si my increment
[12:10:17 AM] sng samantha: for fuck sake is tat realy important old HAG
[12:10:28 AM] James Poh: chill
[12:10:37 AM] sng samantha: sorry pardon me for my language i m really fed upfor 5 yrs
[12:10:45 AM] James Poh: some people are insecure about finances even for their kids
[12:10:57 AM] sng samantha: every yr . i get asked itsas thugh auntie. how much $ u intend to leave behind
[12:11:06 AM] sng samantha: ur shop under reoprt tax hw much
[12:11:12 AM] James Poh: lol
[12:11:13 AM] sng samantha: y u care i earn $5k or $10k
[12:11:21 AM] sng samantha: u know  i can report u for tat oso
[12:11:34 AM] sng samantha: n for a records .m y lau pei just accepts watever allowance i give
[12:11:45 AM] sng samantha: coz hes not money face like u
[12:11:57 AM] sng samantha: n for all the questions u ask . i give fake answer so y bother asking
[12:12:11 AM] sng samantha: n the boy says. if u r nt hapy w someting u resovle dun take it out on me
[12:12:21 AM] sng samantha: then i say u r a useless man . u r a gd son
[12:12:24 AM] sng samantha: i m the bad wife
[12:12:25 AM] sng samantha:  fuck u
[12:12:29 AM] James Poh: both sides quite true too
[12:12:32 AM] sng samantha: n he says ..
[12:12:42 AM] sng samantha: erm if u r nt happy dun bother to come to my house
[12:12:44 AM] James Poh: but if he doesn't stand with you, he's not doing what a husband should do
[12:12:47 AM] sng samantha: i rpleied welldone
[12:13:04 AM] sng samantha: we will postphone the food tasting coz i dun secure i hve happiness
[12:13:18 AM] sng samantha: n a happy bride i feel stressed wat kind of mother i m askin for now
[12:13:46 AM] sng samantha: my own father is not anal enough to ask him can u feed  a family or how much pin jin can u offer to get a bride
[12:13:50 AM] sng samantha: i m not sales item.
[12:14:05 AM] sng samantha: m dad knows i need to renvoate so he understands
[12:14:09 AM] sng samantha: n he wont ask a lot
[12:14:13 AM] sng samantha: n hes not asking a lot either
[12:14:23 AM] sng samantha: but all these tell my mother urself reply just fire me out like fuel
[12:14:39 AM] James Poh: *pat pat*
[12:14:47 AM] sng samantha: i dunno y i was so worked up . i rplied wats the pt of food tasting when i dun even know u r the correct man to entrust my life with
[12:14:52 AM] sng samantha: n then islam the phone
[12:15:04 AM] sng samantha: i said u r a gd son. continue to be 1