1772014 10th Month To Marriage and counting.. 6 years knowing each other

We are well settled in the new humble shed. Although there are some minor items which need to be removed or thrown away. Or even new sound bar to enhance the overall look and view cum ambience of the house. Our house may not be the most ostentatious or glamorous. Overall the look of the tree house has been quite successful. It has their hinge of cozy factor in it.

These days,most of the fom facebook postings these days are on the musings on people's meals, childhood pictures or their happy moments of their juniors. This just translate something we have evolved. Today is not just only on yourself , you. Its more on a we, our. Family and friends. We are evolving to our mid 30s and our body has indeed degenerate a little, Yes I do find myself getting old and tired after work and i cant focus on heavy reading or on the tablet for more than 30 mins. 20 mins seems to be the maximum during bed time, this just voice down to the productivity and concentration efforts. It also then translates to another phase of life we ought to go through after enjoying the blissful just u n me for the past 6 yrs.

Our union together was not the best smooth sailing, but i must comment. It was the most varied, fun loving and non pretentious moments together. We were best buddies, best pals and partners. I could picture myself running after a bunch of our kids and sit down at the beach and spread butter on the bread. While the duo pair of boys of gals just splash water and build sand castles and enjoy some private family time together.
Probably its time to get the juniors involved.  Its not because of seeing children pictures on FB. that you decide to pull yourself together to accept the cons of having children, likebeing poorer, busier, angrier than usual and efforts to put food on the table and to educate and nurture the young. Its far from just a "bao zhang" like what my mil quotes. Children need attention love and care, its not just a dog which you can feed him 2 times a day, 2 walks together.

In another 3 months time, we could meet a new member, as my BIl is getting married. Lots of loose ends to tie, it will eventually build character and responsibility to build up a project. My intutive nature tells me she would definitly not be a easy person to get along because of her ultra pettiness and her sharp defensive innate characteristic would clash badly with the fussy calculative mil. For this team to work, one must give in and that candidate would not be either of the them and that would be the poor accomodating husband cum son.

The new banking working environment in DBS has gone by in 2 months. close to that. We have the usual gossipy and emo team mates, The one who know it all, the quiet and timid ones and the loud and gregarious bunch of  warm people. They just never fail to brighten a gloomy day and bring a smile to the team..

Housewarming party 2014 has ended 13072014 12-6pm

With lots of smiles and laughter , we ended today with massive cleaning , scrubbing, washing  and more washing to clean the interiors and exteriors well.
It was a joint family event among the 2 families. I believe it is a most enjoyable event for this year for both of us. We seldom gather with our families this much.
Lots of useful gifts, desserts were given. My brother bought fruits, lychee, watermelon and tupperware for all relatives to tabao back.
A tiring but fulfilling day.

23062014 9th mth married and 1 mth settled with CBG loans. DBS

Hahaha. my evil plot is soon unfolding. Just another 6 more nights n we are done with Ubi.
A lot of effort put in. manpower. $$. words simply cant explain my euphoric reaction.

Settling in the new house finally.. Looking forward to the weekend of housewarming. cleaning ohYes cleaning. n prep work of hosting.

Today is 11.7.2014 Friday, also known as 7-eleven day but there are no attractive buys for me to shop.
It is my 3rd week settling in Hougang, this friendly little estate with cute neighbours. Also to our route in independence, still ironing out our differences on how we tidy the house, cook, do marketing budgeting or how we place our personal items in the house.

We had countless arguments over $, over cash flow on what should be paid, how it should be done, what parties format to organise for house-warming. Nevertheless, we managed to get by and get things off the list one by one.

No doubt, we still commit mistakes being human due to the lack of experience. We wasted marketing food stuff from the wet market, we throw a few vegetables because the structure of our fridge is the reverse. Unlike the conventional on top and vegetables below, our fridge was the reverse. Therefore we had some problem adjusting. Along the renovation period, the quarter accomplished was collection of keys
Major fight, within 2nd wk, I had thoughts of decoupling and selling off this house after 5 yrs to avoid responsibilities. Oh well, Md Bong is a challenging character to stay with, due to her mood swings, calculative and self centred nature. She does has her good points, but still its a nightmare foreseeing she will mess up the equilibrium and cleanlinless we built up.

Year 2008 Nov 26

• Know Panda and decided to be a couple

Milestones achieved for the year 2011-2014 July 11 curent

• April 2011 BTO for Parkview
• Got to know a bunch of friendly PV neighbours 2X of gatherings
• Sept 2013 Got married
• May 2014 PV key collection, wipe-off CPF and mass buying for furniture and fixtures
• June 2014 Renovation, end of June move in
• June 29 2014 Sun official move in PV
• July 13 2014 Sun Joint Housewarming between 2 families.
• Next milestone.... perhaps Panda n Pork Junior by Q4 2015 BABIES.. hahahaThat will mark the end of the 2ppl empire.