We are well settled in the new humble shed. Although there are some minor items which need to be removed or thrown away. Or even new sound bar to enhance the overall look and view cum ambience of the house. Our house may not be the most ostentatious or glamorous. Overall the look of the tree house has been quite successful. It has their hinge of cozy factor in it.
These days,most of the fom facebook postings these days are on the musings on people's meals, childhood pictures or their happy moments of their juniors. This just translate something we have evolved. Today is not just only on yourself , you. Its more on a we, our. Family and friends. We are evolving to our mid 30s and our body has indeed degenerate a little, Yes I do find myself getting old and tired after work and i cant focus on heavy reading or on the tablet for more than 30 mins. 20 mins seems to be the maximum during bed time, this just voice down to the productivity and concentration efforts. It also then translates to another phase of life we ought to go through after enjoying the blissful just u n me for the past 6 yrs.
Our union together was not the best smooth sailing, but i must comment. It was the most varied, fun loving and non pretentious moments together. We were best buddies, best pals and partners. I could picture myself running after a bunch of our kids and sit down at the beach and spread butter on the bread. While the duo pair of boys of gals just splash water and build sand castles and enjoy some private family time together.
Probably its time to get the juniors involved. Its not because of seeing children pictures on FB. that you decide to pull yourself together to accept the cons of having children, likebeing poorer, busier, angrier than usual and efforts to put food on the table and to educate and nurture the young. Its far from just a "bao zhang" like what my mil quotes. Children need attention love and care, its not just a dog which you can feed him 2 times a day, 2 walks together.
In another 3 months time, we could meet a new member, as my BIl is getting married. Lots of loose ends to tie, it will eventually build character and responsibility to build up a project. My intutive nature tells me she would definitly not be a easy person to get along because of her ultra pettiness and her sharp defensive innate characteristic would clash badly with the fussy calculative mil. For this team to work, one must give in and that candidate would not be either of the them and that would be the poor accomodating husband cum son.
The new banking working environment in DBS has gone by in 2 months. close to that. We have the usual gossipy and emo team mates, The one who know it all, the quiet and timid ones and the loud and gregarious bunch of warm people. They just never fail to brighten a gloomy day and bring a smile to the team..
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