Monday, July 08, 2013

wedding speech n wedding vow





















Today I take you as my partner. I promise to love you without reservation. Comfort you and in times of distress. WHILE MARRIAGE may seems challenging and definitely takes both to maintain and nurture. While somedays are bad. We will b each other to laugh n cry together and irritate one another to make dark days seem more brighter. We would do our best to make Eveydyay and the rest of my days happy and blessed together.until the very end.we would encourage each other and b eaxh other best fren. Life partner from today and every day for the rest of our lives as we both shall live and honor e other.








首先感谢大家抽空。

谢谢我的家人,父母亲的养育。英平妈妈。还有表姐,姐妹和兄弟团。

还有亲人,老公给我的包容和谦让。一路走来很感激身边关心支持我。

英平和我很荣幸分享我们的喜悦,because knowing each other we got to celebrate mother n fathers day again. this means a lot to me .. coz both of ur come from single parent since young.

今天是我和英平开始的起跑点。往后要一起过日子by

收到大家的祝福,我们很开心

往后还有很长我哥哥常常讲。我们会一起好好进营婚姻。

最后还有未嫁或娶的朋友,希望你也找到幸福!
  enjoy ur dinner, 如果有招待不周请多多包含
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Thank you friends, families, colleagues. for joining us today on our special day.

Firstly,We have  al ot of relatives coming from  sarawak. JB and also friends who have booked their leaves way advance just to attend.  I have my jie mei to support me  coz i tend to forget details . blur and sotong n panicky , my family who has been supportive. My papa who has been a single parents to me.. my bro n sil who guides me along the way for this whole wedding planning. giving me invaluable advice

 my husband who can tahan my faults and my weaknesses n despite all that  \still loves me dearly. I m beri fortunate to have all my khakis who has been on my side. Without all these people, this day wont have happen so smoothly. So thank you for your efforts. With this day on, ah pheng n I shall work together as man & wife. Lastly we would cherish one another till we r old n gray n  Manage to find somone  and we shall continue to irritate eaclh other until we cant. hahahaha  Lastly Once again,we appreciate your presence, sit back relax  Hope you enjoy the rest of the evening with us and have a joyful sunday night.. cheers..

Friday, June 28, 2013

Prehoneymoon trip with the teaching assistants with ITE college East n panda

Day 1
June 20 2013
Meet at Ubi
6.45am

Reach custom 8am
Breakfast 9am
Federal Route Bak Kut Teh
Lunch break. kopi
Kuantan Homestay
Mangrove Swamp
Firefly watching
Turtle Watching Tregannu

Sunday, June 16, 2013

私はこの暑さですぐに狂ったつもり

Its been a good week except that there were some emails exchanged for some incorrect information revealed.
4 gold has been bought by Panda. He made some breakfast too.
We had a happy fathers day dinner n dessert time at Chinatown pt..

Thursday, June 13, 2013

失而复得的东西,感情..一瞬间让你心里舒服。。欣慰

失而复得的东西,感情..一瞬间让你心里舒服。。欣慰

Tuesday, June 04, 2013

A sweet dream

I had a dream close to reality. IT was so vivid I could see it rolling like my premonition to witnessing my own wedding ceremony as a 3rd party. Deciphering wedding dreams indicates wedding anxieties but half the time I forgot ten my late mum 's presence.
So in my dream, I could hear myself reciting the vows before my family people and of all people I could see my mum in the crowd smilling and waving at me.as someone whos notan advocate of the spiritual sort. Whether I was undergoing stress during wedding preparation or it was my mum appearing in my dream. It cannot be determined.
I shall conpare it to actual day to match the incidents of occurance to validate whether I see it coming as dejavu or plain coincidence

Sunday, May 05, 2013

5/5/13

Still the news is exciting. would BN win or PR win... 2.5 hrs to results.

Saturday, May 04, 2013

A hearty meal with the Bongs. CHong. at geylang no sign board dinner

It was an  enjoyable day with Dad watching movie, THE call..
he must have been happy that his little daughter is fed up and has unbottled the pent up frustration..  I was sharing with Mj dad the downside of his mum. N their so called family dish.. pineapple and pig intestine. unable to take it n they were telling me it was the best. I should learn to cook the nigao tofu hakka.. to impress upon m mil. wahahah.
Few tips to counter. learn to accept other ppl flaws. learn to live in harmony with in laws. learn to be a nicer wife and caring person.

Friday, May 03, 2013

its 4 months to marriage n i m reconsidering is he a best decison of my life. will i live in peace n harmony n i would just let bong n wang brothers ride over me like a ball of houseflies. i m so damn pissed n i shall take time to consider carefully.

Prewedding jitters. potential mil issues. overly kaypo mil.  unhygenic environment.. mouldy looking rice cooker. roaches kitchen. unreliable husband to be and a overbearing mil.


[12:07:48 AM] sng samantha: i m so mad at the mummy boy
[12:07:58 AM] James Poh: y?
[12:07:59 AM] sng samantha: i m seriously reconsidering if its a wise decision
[12:08:10 AM] sng samantha: or just cancel the wedding or postphone the food tasting
[12:08:19 AM] James Poh: how come?
[12:09:11 AM] sng samantha: its just his mother
[12:09:15 AM] sng samantha: i dunno y shes like iras
[12:09:19 AM] James Poh: hmmmmm then?
[12:09:22 AM] sng samantha: ask me all sort of nonesene questions
[12:09:38 AM] sng samantha: n half the time i m asking the man to bridge n he says tell her urelf if u r n t happy
[12:09:44 AM] sng samantha: first was the dowry
[12:09:50 AM] sng samantha: then it was abt salary
[12:09:56 AM] sng samantha: ask how much do i draw
[12:09:59 AM] sng samantha: how much allowance i give
[12:10:03 AM] sng samantha: how much bonus  have
[12:10:10 AM] sng samantha: n finally how much si my increment
[12:10:17 AM] sng samantha: for fuck sake is tat realy important old HAG
[12:10:28 AM] James Poh: chill
[12:10:37 AM] sng samantha: sorry pardon me for my language i m really fed upfor 5 yrs
[12:10:45 AM] James Poh: some people are insecure about finances even for their kids
[12:10:57 AM] sng samantha: every yr . i get asked itsas thugh auntie. how much $ u intend to leave behind
[12:11:06 AM] sng samantha: ur shop under reoprt tax hw much
[12:11:12 AM] James Poh: lol
[12:11:13 AM] sng samantha: y u care i earn $5k or $10k
[12:11:21 AM] sng samantha: u know  i can report u for tat oso
[12:11:34 AM] sng samantha: n for a records .m y lau pei just accepts watever allowance i give
[12:11:45 AM] sng samantha: coz hes not money face like u
[12:11:57 AM] sng samantha: n for all the questions u ask . i give fake answer so y bother asking
[12:12:11 AM] sng samantha: n the boy says. if u r nt hapy w someting u resovle dun take it out on me
[12:12:21 AM] sng samantha: then i say u r a useless man . u r a gd son
[12:12:24 AM] sng samantha: i m the bad wife
[12:12:25 AM] sng samantha:  fuck u
[12:12:29 AM] James Poh: both sides quite true too
[12:12:32 AM] sng samantha: n he says ..
[12:12:42 AM] sng samantha: erm if u r nt happy dun bother to come to my house
[12:12:44 AM] James Poh: but if he doesn't stand with you, he's not doing what a husband should do
[12:12:47 AM] sng samantha: i rpleied welldone
[12:13:04 AM] sng samantha: we will postphone the food tasting coz i dun secure i hve happiness
[12:13:18 AM] sng samantha: n a happy bride i feel stressed wat kind of mother i m askin for now
[12:13:46 AM] sng samantha: my own father is not anal enough to ask him can u feed  a family or how much pin jin can u offer to get a bride
[12:13:50 AM] sng samantha: i m not sales item.
[12:14:05 AM] sng samantha: m dad knows i need to renvoate so he understands
[12:14:09 AM] sng samantha: n he wont ask a lot
[12:14:13 AM] sng samantha: n hes not asking a lot either
[12:14:23 AM] sng samantha: but all these tell my mother urself reply just fire me out like fuel
[12:14:39 AM] James Poh: *pat pat*
[12:14:47 AM] sng samantha: i dunno y i was so worked up . i rplied wats the pt of food tasting when i dun even know u r the correct man to entrust my life with
[12:14:52 AM] sng samantha: n then islam the phone
[12:15:04 AM] sng samantha: i said u r a gd son. continue to be 1

Sunday, April 28, 2013

5 months to wedding... 28/4/2013.. to 29/9/13

Its going to be a 5 month before getting married. n theres usually a lot of nit gritty work to be done. Today's task mingle with Mdm Bong..
Had bonus lunch thai express w papa
Treat Panda n Mdm Bong at crystal jade xiao long bao.
Now that i bought my underwear hanger in Pandas' room. I reduce the interaction among the bro, as for laundry  I will hand wash and hang outside the house. n if possible a portable clothes hanger stand.
Next big thing in the list..  have a joint family dinner w Mdm Bong .Panda Brothers. as well as SCP n the Sng brother bonding hood..
13 June food tasting..
19 May joint family dinner.. hope it be fun..
next thing to be bothered. bridesmaid dress.. June 7