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I had a small talk with my dad last night.
And he told me.. "age is not a factor, don't rush into marriage because you feel you're of age to. The most important thing is to find the right man to marry"
So it made me wonder...
Should i marry the man i love or the right guy?
the right guy might not be the man i love...
Would u marry a husband material guy or marry the man u love, even though you know he isn't
the perfect husband material?
Marriage changes everything, it's not THE END to a r'ship, its the very start of it.
So how would you know the man you're about to marry is the RIGHT one?
how can you judge by dating a couple of years?
what makes you think the man you love is the right one?
As for me, i think i follow my heart too much that i'd rather marry the man i love, he may not a perfect husband but i think there's no right or wrong to marrying the man you love.
beaver_juice
We come to love not by finding a perfect person, but by learning to see an imperfect person perfectly”
“Love me when I least deserve it, because that's when I really need it.”
rainbow bear..
"The love we give away is the only love we keep."
the most important thing to a woman is to never marry the wrong guy, you will regret for life
QUOTE (PoShLeEn~ @ Jul 2 2010, 11:42 AM) *
if the man i love, loves me as much as i do to him, he will try his best to be husband material for me.
jus like if i love him, i will try my best to be of wifey material for him
zelda1031
kinda agree with this.
anyway a good BF = good husband for my POV ^^)
if he's really a good bf , he will put u in the 1st place , plan future for u ..... and treat you good .....
unless he's a fake good bf -.-ll just act till married than devil's tail come out ^^ll
ZiYe
best of all is to marry the one whom you love and is perfect husband material lo.. laugh.gif
if not, i would choose to marry one who makes a good husband than the one i love but is a lousy lifetime partner..
with a bearable or smooth marriage, love can grow.. but with a lousy marriage, gudges will grow and love will eventually die..
Foremost, what does 'husband material' mean?
Jaslinejasline
I believe person who is a good husband material must be a good man first. The word "good" is ambiguous, so diff ppl will hv diff interpretation due to diff expectation.
My expectation of a good husband is a responsible, dedicated and trustworthy man. A man with all these 3 quality will be consider perfect for me, despite there might be imperfection.
last nite 's episode at kallang leisure park was of one.. classic case.. me dumping him n slaming the car door .
n then we had an argument in starbucks n he stormed off.
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