There are several milestones for this year altogether
In Feb 2016
Started the year still jobless. signed the LO on 11 Jan 2016 still was bumping around until after CNY in Feb 2016.
Was still uncertain of my future
Mar 2016..
A new member and Gideon's cousin with the Wang family
Feeling blue and consistently arguing over the daily bread and butter issues at home
May 2016 a setback for me n i had a meltdown at the clarity room. Extended probation
July 2016 was my AIG confirmation month
Panda was admitted during CNY in Mt A n CGH
started work barely 1 week and had to shuffle to back and forth to work and to ifc n then to the mil n bro place
In Sep 2016
Celebrated our 3rd yr wedding anniversary . Survived 12 hr flight to Hokkaido with Gideon and Papa
Had a lot of moments there. especially Furano, Otaru, Kutchan and Sapporo, not forgetting Doremon World
In Oct 2016, Gideon has learnt to wobble and walk in small steps although still unsteadily.
See more resignations with the team, maybe as what most people who told me . This positon or place would not offer me a career but a job rather to pay my bills.
Jan 2017 renewal ctt mth
Feb 2017 marks the end of my contract w AIG
Mar 2017 what will be the new chapter
Aug 2017.. Gideon's 2th birthday
And now 14 months into parenthood, i wont deny the days are short, nights are long.
We have new challenges to overcome as parents after we establish a schedule
Toddlers operate and behave much differently from babies. Basic needs are now replaced with heavy stamina running and chasing. Child proofing and tantrums, discipline issues.
Parenting has given us a different light on how we want to mirror ourselves and project our values to our children.
Also it has taught me to be resilient, self reliant , resourceful and also patient to deal with the many problem i encounter on a daily basis and it challenges our mind as parents, partners and employees in the workforce.
The pathway walk is nothing but a home full of laughter, big smiles and screams n cries
Nonetheless i m glad and blessed to participate in this parenting journey to watch my boy grow up with me and i learn how to be a better parent by parenting and learning everyday.
Day by day i watch a child develop his character and motor skills
more important to nurture a character as a fine young man who will contribute his skills to the society
As a sensible young man who will serve the nation and protect his family and his loved ones.
the day will come when he has to lead a family of his own. that is the time i will truly let go of my hand to hold him and support him while he shines.
there are many nights you could always doubt yourself if you are doing it correctly as a parent or the food which you cook, did it fit the model non salt, non sugar dietary intake
but heck it. there is no perfect parenting. neither are there perfect children or parents.
We have our flaws, n our imperfections. but the main thing still runs in deep . blood in our veins.
maybe the next entry i have for 2017 shall mark another new milestone as I project a 2nd yr in parenting project and to hit my Kpi before 35 to add another permanent member/ cum playmate cum Gideon's sibling to make this family even more exciting and up level the challenge by 2 times. with 1 todder and a baby
Till date I m happy bonding with myboy n husband n still remain the queen of the family till this day
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