wedding speech n wedding vow

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Wedding vow on 29.9.2013 compose mrt to yishun meet tb 7.7.2013 

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Today I take you as my partner. I promise to love you without reservation. Comfort you and in times of distress. WHILE MARRIAGE may seems challenging and definitely takes both to maintain and nurture. While somedays are bad. We will b each other to laugh n cry together and irritate one another to make dark days seem more brighter. We would do our best to make Eveydyay and the rest of my days happy and blessed together.until the very end.we would encourage each other and b eaxh other best fren. Life partner from today and every day for the rest of our lives as we both shall live and honor e other.

首先感谢大家抽空。

谢谢我的家人，父母亲的养育。英平妈妈。还有表姐，姐妹和兄弟团。

还有亲人，老公给我的包容和谦让。一路走来很感激身边关心支持我。

英平和我很荣幸分享我们的喜悦，because knowing each other we got to celebrate mother n fathers day again. this means a lot to me .. coz both of ur come from single parent since young.

今天是我和英平开始的起跑点。往后要一起过日子by

收到大家的祝福，我们很开心

往后还有很长我哥哥常常讲。我们会一起好好进营婚姻。

最后还有未嫁或娶的朋友，希望你也找到幸福！
  enjoy ur dinner, 如果有招待不周请多多包含
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Thank you friends, families, colleagues. for joining us today on our special day.

Firstly,We have  al ot of relatives coming from  sarawak. JB and also friends who have booked their leaves way advance just to attend.  I have my jie mei to support me  coz i tend to forget details . blur and sotong n panicky , my family who has been supportive. My papa who has been a single parents to me.. my bro n sil who guides me along the way for this whole wedding planning. giving me invaluable advice

 my husband who can tahan my faults and my weaknesses n despite all that  \still loves me dearly. I m beri fortunate to have all my khakis who has been on my side. Without all these people, this day wont have happen so smoothly. So thank you for your efforts. With this day on, ah pheng n I shall work together as man & wife. Lastly we would cherish one another till we r old n gray n  Manage to find somone  and we shall continue to irritate eaclh other until we cant. hahahaha  Lastly Once again,we appreciate your presence, sit back relax  Hope you enjoy the rest of the evening with us and have a joyful sunday night.. cheers..

Prehoneymoon trip with the teaching assistants with ITE college East n panda

Day 1
June 20 2013
Meet at Ubi
6.45am

Reach custom 8am
Breakfast 9am
Federal Route Bak Kut Teh
Lunch break. kopi
Kuantan Homestay
Mangrove Swamp
Firefly watching
Turtle Watching Tregannu

私はこの暑さですぐに狂ったつもり

Its been a good week except that there were some emails exchanged for some incorrect information revealed.
4 gold has been bought by Panda. He made some breakfast too.
We had a happy fathers day dinner n dessert time at Chinatown pt..

失而复得的东西，感情..一瞬间让你心里舒服。。欣慰

失而复得的东西，感情..一瞬间让你心里舒服。。欣慰

A sweet dream

I had a dream close to reality. IT was so vivid I could see it rolling like my premonition to witnessing my own wedding ceremony as a 3rd party. Deciphering wedding dreams indicates wedding anxieties but half the time I forgot ten my late mum 's presence.
So in my dream, I could hear myself reciting the vows before my family people and of all people I could see my mum in the crowd smilling and waving at me.as someone whos notan advocate of the spiritual sort. Whether I was undergoing stress during wedding preparation or it was my mum appearing in my dream. It cannot be determined.
I shall conpare it to actual day to match the incidents of occurance to validate whether I see it coming as dejavu or plain coincidence

5/5/13

Still the news is exciting. would BN win or PR win... 2.5 hrs to results.

A hearty meal with the Bongs. CHong. at geylang no sign board dinner

It was an  enjoyable day with Dad watching movie, THE call..
he must have been happy that his little daughter is fed up and has unbottled the pent up frustration..  I was sharing with Mj dad the downside of his mum. N their so called family dish.. pineapple and pig intestine. unable to take it n they were telling me it was the best. I should learn to cook the nigao tofu hakka.. to impress upon m mil. wahahah.
Few tips to counter. learn to accept other ppl flaws. learn to live in harmony with in laws. learn to be a nicer wife and caring person.

its 4 months to marriage n i m reconsidering is he a best decison of my life. will i live in peace n harmony n i would just let bong n wang brothers ride over me like a ball of houseflies. i m so damn pissed n i shall take time to consider carefully.

Prewedding jitters. potential mil issues. overly kaypo mil.  unhygenic environment.. mouldy looking rice cooker. roaches kitchen. unreliable husband to be and a overbearing mil.


[12:07:48 AM] sng samantha: i m so mad at the mummy boy
[12:07:58 AM] James Poh: y?
[12:07:59 AM] sng samantha: i m seriously reconsidering if its a wise decision
[12:08:10 AM] sng samantha: or just cancel the wedding or postphone the food tasting
[12:08:19 AM] James Poh: how come?
[12:09:11 AM] sng samantha: its just his mother
[12:09:15 AM] sng samantha: i dunno y shes like iras
[12:09:19 AM] James Poh: hmmmmm then?
[12:09:22 AM] sng samantha: ask me all sort of nonesene questions
[12:09:38 AM] sng samantha: n half the time i m asking the man to bridge n he says tell her urelf if u r n t happy
[12:09:44 AM] sng samantha: first was the dowry
[12:09:50 AM] sng samantha: then it was abt salary
[12:09:56 AM] sng samantha: ask how much do i draw
[12:09:59 AM] sng samantha: how much allowance i give
[12:10:03 AM] sng samantha: how much bonus  have
[12:10:10 AM] sng samantha: n finally how much si my increment
[12:10:17 AM] sng samantha: for fuck sake is tat realy important old HAG
[12:10:28 AM] James Poh: chill
[12:10:37 AM] sng samantha: sorry pardon me for my language i m really fed upfor 5 yrs
[12:10:45 AM] James Poh: some people are insecure about finances even for their kids
[12:10:57 AM] sng samantha: every yr . i get asked itsas thugh auntie. how much $ u intend to leave behind
[12:11:06 AM] sng samantha: ur shop under reoprt tax hw much
[12:11:12 AM] James Poh: lol
[12:11:13 AM] sng samantha: y u care i earn $5k or $10k
[12:11:21 AM] sng samantha: u know  i can report u for tat oso
[12:11:34 AM] sng samantha: n for a records .m y lau pei just accepts watever allowance i give
[12:11:45 AM] sng samantha: coz hes not money face like u
[12:11:57 AM] sng samantha: n for all the questions u ask . i give fake answer so y bother asking
[12:12:11 AM] sng samantha: n the boy says. if u r nt hapy w someting u resovle dun take it out on me
[12:12:21 AM] sng samantha: then i say u r a useless man . u r a gd son
[12:12:24 AM] sng samantha: i m the bad wife
[12:12:25 AM] sng samantha:  fuck u
[12:12:29 AM] James Poh: both sides quite true too
[12:12:32 AM] sng samantha: n he says ..
[12:12:42 AM] sng samantha: erm if u r nt happy dun bother to come to my house
[12:12:44 AM] James Poh: but if he doesn't stand with you, he's not doing what a husband should do
[12:12:47 AM] sng samantha: i rpleied welldone
[12:13:04 AM] sng samantha: we will postphone the food tasting coz i dun secure i hve happiness
[12:13:18 AM] sng samantha: n a happy bride i feel stressed wat kind of mother i m askin for now
[12:13:46 AM] sng samantha: my own father is not anal enough to ask him can u feed  a family or how much pin jin can u offer to get a bride
[12:13:50 AM] sng samantha: i m not sales item.
[12:14:05 AM] sng samantha: m dad knows i need to renvoate so he understands
[12:14:09 AM] sng samantha: n he wont ask a lot
[12:14:13 AM] sng samantha: n hes not asking a lot either
[12:14:23 AM] sng samantha: but all these tell my mother urself reply just fire me out like fuel
[12:14:39 AM] James Poh: *pat pat*
[12:14:47 AM] sng samantha: i dunno y i was so worked up . i rplied wats the pt of food tasting when i dun even know u r the correct man to entrust my life with
[12:14:52 AM] sng samantha: n then islam the phone
[12:15:04 AM] sng samantha: i said u r a gd son. continue to be 1

5 months to wedding... 28/4/2013.. to 29/9/13

Its going to be a 5 month before getting married. n theres usually a lot of nit gritty work to be done. Today's task mingle with Mdm Bong..
Had bonus lunch thai express w papa
Treat Panda n Mdm Bong at crystal jade xiao long bao.
Now that i bought my underwear hanger in Pandas' room. I reduce the interaction among the bro, as for laundry  I will hand wash and hang outside the house. n if possible a portable clothes hanger stand.
Next big thing in the list..  have a joint family dinner w Mdm Bong .Panda Brothers. as well as SCP n the Sng brother bonding hood..
13 June food tasting..
19 May joint family dinner.. hope it be fun..
next thing to be bothered. bridesmaid dress.. June 7

choosing photopictures today..

save the date templates n rsvp draft 1.. photoshoots done.. pending item collect photo shoots n food tasting

Just feel like writing aft 2013 quarter has came

Managed to get myself confirmed. Still gets complaints and quite frequent naggings from delay in follow ups n also some f-up PH who is equally mad at me as well as my mentor n TLs.Insurance knowledge and systems still I will get myself hanged once in a while.

M looking forward to Thursday 21.3.2013 whereby the bridal shots would materialise. n the day when we select our wonderful bui bui pics. star of the show..

Tomorrow 20.3.2013. highlight would be to bring the kids out to watch Croods. which i belive they would really be thrilled as well as to catch up with Dad whom I have much neglected when i stay overnite at the Wangs Ubi residence.

Come 21.3.2013, have packed some of the more essential items. blotters.. lipstick. 2 way cake. sun block.towel. nude bra. my ring. bling. n oso our diamond ring ring pillows. checklist. fan. n our props. to be trucked into xiao hong on eve of 20.3.2013 as well as to check first thing in the morning to ensure all items not left out.

Was thinking along on the montage.video and wat kind of speech i m going to give on a typical sun nite.
Lke i would start with.

Thank you friends, families, colleagues. for joining us today on our special day.

Firstly,We have  al ot of relatives coming from  sarawak. JB and also friends who have booked their leaves way advance just to attend.  I have my jie mei to support me  coz i tend to forget details . blur and sotong n panicky , my family who has been supportive. My papa who has been a single parents to me.. my bro n sil who guides me along the way for this whole wedding planning. giving me invaluable advice

 my husband who can tahan my faults and my weaknesses n despite all that  \still loves me dearly. I m beri fortunate to have all my khakis who has been on my side. Without all these people, this day wont have happen so smoothly. So thank you for your efforts. With this day on, ah pheng n I shall work together as man & wife. Lastly we would cherish one another till we r old n gray n continue to irritate eaclh other until we cant. Lastly Once again,we appreciate your presence, sit back relax  Hope you enjoy the rest of the evening with us and have a joyful sunday night.. cheers..

29..birTHDAY

received  a tablet for birthday.. a pink bear.. a bodyshop shower n perfume.. n many well wishes from US. aust.japan.n malaysia... its been nice..even went grocery shopping w FUTURE mother in law.

another wk of  eating.. starts from tue. wed. fri n sat.. 4 out of 7 days to eat. managed to limit myself for each gathering

received my gmarket shoes.  myverdict..quality wasnpt gd
my heels gave way on my first day aft1 long  day out.

auntie may cooked nicecrab dinner n bro 3 bought durian cake...

Oct 14.. visited a fren n attended a baby shower.`

Knowing that one of the frens who contacted ovarian cancer at 30 is quite a big shock.

Thus in 1 yr .. in fact 8 months things change. They just got married in Oct 1 2011 . honeymoon and was anticipating their house soon. The future seems promising and a new life to live together. Now its exchanged w weekly hospital visits and chemotherapy to control the conditions.

Life has been fragile and precarious. It strives us to be on high alert  and I hope to get it done before my wedding to ensure my health, body both mentally and physically is ready to take up new challenges..

We visited this fren at her place coz she cant go out for risk of infection. At this age where everything is just a start, she swell in tears. I do feel for her since it may be part of her plans to have kids after she has settled her house.

I shall not procastinate on the cervical vacination and get myself vacinned before my 30th birthday.

After going through a week of scrutinization..

Been through call monitoring with the Tls.. and it took me while to realise what is " THIS IS WRONG" type of statements on me. Bosses expect work, no odt attitude and all. I survey around I m not the only one that does that anyway.Get over it improve and strive compliance, perfections and choice of words to present to avoid trouble.

Manage to drink like 3x a week.. Tue. Wed.  & Friday.  I drank at Once upon a bar, bought sheng shiong TW beer...Been to the highest level on Raffles place.. I attitude.. n that when we got down to ground 1... we felt the stress level build up again. so much for city folks.Really did spend far too much but I was happy  spending it..

Met new drinking khakis last nite  Jasmine and Jolene belong to the no marriage enjoy life moments.. so I was telling her maybe in another 5 years . whens shes 31,36,41 paradigms may shift due to some reasons. They found love and lost love at the same time. after persistently meeting toads they no longer want to meet for the sake of meeting. Jasmine got into a new role and was plague by harassment on SMU boy and as well  as accepting new leading roles. Its a gd chance to show how you shine in leading.. good for her although the process is painful.

Panda's fren Jane was diagnosed with stage 3 cancer and thus it came as a big blow . i recall Kee's mum sick as well on his wedding. In a twirl of 1 year, things change. Responsibilities shift, now I see the difference between single young and carefree vs married, mature and plate full with tasks and roles to be entrusted. Now I begin to see the conversation I had with Elena and Serene. If you are ready for such responsibilities then you should stay single to be fair to the other partner.

I was quoting that being in single life its all about myself. me and more me. And when you progress to  another level, its about. We. we .. Once made, its difficult to reverse. However I believe moments like this we should all go through.. at least when we leave. we leave a legend behind.  I believe I m like the extension self of my mum.. More financially independent. well travelled. exposed educated and varied. Unlike my mum I choose to get married much later like 30.. while my mum met my dad n got married at 21.. at 30 my mum had already give birth to bro 1 n bro 2..

Bro worm at 40 hasnt grasp the concept of fatherhood.. parenting and stability in  career. Past 2 days or so dad was in a state of delirium and pacing around.. Till I tweet the problem out and surface it that we should spilt the pocket money and distributely evenly on Wk 2.3& 4 to solve dad's cash flow problems.

Well so much for a week.. on happy events.. we confirmed our videographer. bridal. venue till date Oct 13 2012.. 11 months to upgrading my status to Mdm Sng.. yeah will be heading down to orchard later on w ET to get some new clothes also to shop around in town to feel young.. brush teeth bath .. and prepare breakfast for myself.. 13 Oct 12 929am