just ended a family dinner n most of the time, i hear my 3rd brother n 2nd brother as usual yelling at their kids @ the dinning table.Parenting is indeed a difficult task , kids these days compared to the one 10yrs ago or even my age 20yrs ago is entirely different, every few min there is one kid among them misbehaving, i m glad i m not a teacher. my patience is also so limited.. hahahahahaha used to give tuition to get more pocket $ during my poly days.. nt a easy job.. brain cell die a lot oso. for scolding n nagging @ childrenmaybe i always play ard with my niece n nephew, the ones buying birthday presents or bringing them to macs. as a result i lost the sense of "respectable look". most of them bully me. hahahaha
auntie may is a very fierce mother.. most of the kids are scared of her.. compared to when i know her when i was 9.. is a different picture.
my bro is in shift work so most of time she takes care of the kids. so if the 2 kids fight at home, it can be a headache man.. so in a way shes trained to be very firm n strict mother so those 2 monkeys will not misbehave
tonite we c an episode when my 2nd bro try to teach his son how to do mathematics n some phonics language questions
i experienced when i was in primary school oso.. dad had to support 4 children , my mum was a housewife n they were not very highly educated so most of the time, my 2nd bro was my tuition teacher..
just as we were about to leave, we c a teary boy hugging his uncle.. my 3rd bro.. his eye was swollen n he looked so bitter
有一个boy boy从书房走出来，chek chek :( ,
我的papa骂我很大声。。。。。
so I m also a 过来人, 二哥is a very impatient teacher , teach a bit still dunno , then he will get fed up.
i must thank my bro . coz now my handwriting is like typewriter , last time when i write crooked , i will get it from him sure get a spank on the ruler for using ink eraser or mistake.. haizzz,,sad.. then my 3rd bro n i just shrugged our shoulders.. dun cry yang yi.. its only homework..
only reached sk @ 8. by time time i already 饿到 omg... e lrt can be so slow..
in the family car. my sister in law can be so naggy.. pregnant women can be so cranky
auntie may's curry chicken is good..havent "yam tong " for long, everyday tabao food until i also scared..
these days. child care centre has to be so protective of the other kids. as usual the child whos sick got to be sent home for mc so as not to affect other kids.. when iwas younger, where got such thing.. now is the era of enrichment courses & tuition n more assessment books to prepare for the foundation in school.my 老豆was always working coz we were so poor in the past, my bro always remind me they had no $ for recess time. got to wait for my father's wage for recess. luckily when i came out.. life was slightly better but still i dun c my parents often.. but my mum still manage to send me for enrichment course like speech n drama.. coz i was in this convent school, english speaking environment . n i was like an "alien" there coz my family only speak chinese n hockien at home..
as a result during my early days. i was like a very reserved n introverted little gal in sch.. last time where got time for my parents to send me ballet or which ever class. we even had difficulty to eat let alone enrichment classes.
luckily i picked up things quite fast..
when i saw my niece in school ..i recall my childhood was nothing by assessment books & tuition class.. nothing really to be happy about.. haiya.. we didnt even have online games or internet at that time. after all internet was only introduced when i was in my teens
later when i grew up. wat nonsense i did earlier in school doesnt help me at all now
attending this financial seminar on wed , cashflow 101 should be very interesting
went giant today.. packed with so many young couples
e hypermarket is sooooo happening ..
jiao jiao.. conclusion super nua.. get so fed up with her sometimes. e way i c her @ work.. play psb in the toilet somemore
played badminton with lsb, kelvin n fren.ah kun.. jason n fren.. i forgot his name.. he reminds me of chipmunk
anyway its quite enjoyable. long time never play badminton also.. i was attacked by chipmunk accidentally .. chipmunk also a bit paiseh.. haha
one of them when i saw him ,reminds me of polar bear. the feel n the whole package.. fair n softspoken.. just 2ppl by similar in some way
i read rich dad poor dad, robert kiosaki's financial knowlege , based on his own personal experienced, now hes semi retired i his 40s. quite an interesting book now tat i read to the 2nd chapter
consumer price index is like so high now read in BT. 7.8% alone here in sg. .. lunch @ a kopitiam today at a neighbourhood in aljunied is comparable to a food court.. nw the food is almost same price $3.50- $5 for one meal.$2 a meal isa thing of the past
with such rising cost. hw can the average singaporean survive on a meagre pay..
$$$$$$$ .. .bro 3 was still complaining to his wife in the family car...
老婆u dun anyhow spend $,, i wont have a promotion even have oso not much increment..
last nite one my fren was telling us about an ex classmate after she got married n gave birth to a daughter.. she became very nua ,dress so sloppily.. zero makeup with just a polo tee & a denmin skirt.. omg if i were become a mother myself will i also be so 懒惰n so nua..
世上没有丑女人，只有懒女人
可是升级妈妈型之后，真的会改变一个人的想法。其实我并不讨厌小朋友，就是没有太多耐性。养儿现在不是妨老， 是烦恼。
自己还不是妈妈，所以还不能体会其中的辛苦。
女人在现今社会蛮可怜，又要能出得了庭堂，见得了世面。also known as trophy gf or trophy wife 还要进得了厨房， 生活对许多工作上的挑战。非常艰辛困难，即使挺着大肚子也要挤车，巴士地铁，通常多数人都是act blur.. 哪里有人会让位，日子还是要天天过。。
等到时后荣升，为人父母再说吧！ 很像很遥远的事。。 不可能太快发生。。。
我还那么小孩子气。。。不适合现阶段结婚生子。。太习惯家人照顾一切，很难想像自己也要维持一个家。做 妈妈都好辛苦啊！不眠不休传心家庭的大浪费大把青春。。。
女人就是要嫁得好不然好后悔，好遗憾!
要好的男人不然不嫁也罢。。
我也很想他。。。。
那时我们总有好多话什么事都可以讲
我的爱情比你早却一直放在心上
后来你们之间的变化我不想再多说话
经过了相遇挣扎我还是无法将他放下
那是多久后的事啊
有一天你突然问我
在那个时候是否也爱着他
我也很想他我们都一样
在他的身上曾找到翅膀
只是那时的他是因为你而开始飞翔
我也很想他在某个地方
我少了尴尬你少了肩膀
而夏天还是那么短思念却很长
还记得那年我们曾许下的愿望是星星骗了我们我们
却因此少了一课真正必修的学分
我也很想他我们都一样
在他的身上曾找到翅膀
只是那时的他是因为你而开始飞翔
我也很想他在某个地方
我少了尴尬你少了肩膀
而夏天还是那么短思念却很长
我们都一样
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