its been a good weekend starting on sat with a bitching session with germ followed by a nice facial. family dinner and also a nice hair color @ hairjournal. mahognang base with red streaks. brings out the shine with the coporate uniform.
although there is nothing to be unhappy about, but i am still a bit angry over the matter.
men r alike.
well........
needless to say the market for good people is always lesser than demand.
some of my girl friends also comment , we met a few n some include the petty men category and we gave them some nicknames. one of which includes yogi bear , the pushover and many more..
time to look at the bright side. romance doesnt come by easily neither can it continue perpetually. so single gals or ppl out there. y should i settle for second best when i can have the best.
the morale is up. people crush me. n i tell them out there , hey i wont be crushed . i can bended n stronger than ever. the more you depise me the better i want to be. thats e way aha aha.. i like it! yeah ^_^
i met an interesting lady in the morning who was out on evangelism, she pop by my house and asked me a few questions to break the ice.
lady : gd morning i m XXX, do u think singapore is safe place to live in ?
so the conversation revolves around the news whereby a gal was being stabbed by the boyfriend, we actually discuss what constitutes a character or the morality of being righteous and how can a person be cultivated over time and who should be responsible and how to do it , its quite an interesting topic
and my view towards it , is that the news was jut a subjective case and it does not represent the majority, the character of an individual depends on many factors like upbringing, moral values n the degree and the extend of abiding to certain unwritten norms and moral values attached to it. so how to determine whether this person can be good largely depends on certain criteria, we even covered areas like even intelligent people commit intelligent crimes. however if everybody is orderly . good , and kind it wouldnt be realistic as well
so religion can be a good method to curb and modify behaviour however this is also part of the inner nature to be good then the effects wil be fully absorbed
not all the people think like this. n we should not just instigate certain values on anyone, furthermore behavior cannot be forced. enforced on anyone in fact. so it really takes time to be a gracious society.
some people are easier to mould others maybe not , they prefer to stick in their own rosy and familiar environment where everything comes in smoothly to them. they are resilient to changes just like a stone.my father is one of such an example , borned in the post war period where there is disorder and disharmony and the only right thing that comes in place is a super stable job with a monotone lifestyle to make things work.Unfortunately things do not work this way for me, i prefer variety with an injected feel of new things changing and happening everyday. fastpaced and challenges spur me up which is why i strive in this type of environment
i met up ms chong earlier to pass her the gift, shes happy in her own manner, n i mok with it as long as shes happy. shes a little chubby now.
i got my shape tshirt. and i m working towards an even more leaner figure to get back things that i have lost in order to gain back the least of the self respect i have for myself. i respect my body so i have to work hard to get it back.. 50kg.. not far from target but i must make it work. so sinful eating kenny chicken chop and satay earlier. i do have some craving for certain local delights coz although hongkong offers many choices but in certain perspective nothing beats home. the place when u grow up eating.. n wanting it..
making things happen has always been one my personal motto. i must do it , then it will happen which i firmly believe in cause n effect theory. grow apple .. sow apple
besides setting objectives the positive mindset is a powerful tool to motivte oneself towardsa certain direction to pursue certain goals.
great determination n to be really focused in a field.. nt many can achieve and those who can do that are high in IQ..
although i do have my own set backs. tb mention tat over the phone that i am like the weed.. 杂草的生命力超强！不容易死！只要我肯做一定能成功。。。
天下无难事，只怕有新人
要成功肯定不是偶然。要经过很多障碍，辛苦才会从中体会很珍惜得来的一切，并非运气。。
刷卡花钱很开心，买到自己开心的物品谁不开心，还钱时内心复杂。。一方面快乐，另一方面矛盾
辛苦赚钱花。。。hahahhahahaha
今天看到镜子里的我， 格外陌生。。 太累了。。。竟然出现明显的双眼皮
我并不喜欢夜生活，觉得这样过得太放纵，没有次序， 很迷茫。 这样的过真的好吗?年轻的一代可能和我的想法大有不同，那又如何?大家不是过得好好。。
简单就是幸福吗?
不停得追求物质享受难道不好，还是给自更多不必要的麻烦?。
求上进是好，给自己太多压力不好。
有竞争才有挑战性。。得来的不容易。好怀念读书。。没有顾虑。。
长大了就知道。。大人以前在小时候常常说。。现在大了就明白这一切。。
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