received a tablet for birthday.. a pink bear.. a bodyshop shower n perfume.. n many well wishes from US. aust.japan.n malaysia... its been nice..even went grocery shopping w FUTURE mother in law.
another wk of eating.. starts from tue. wed. fri n sat.. 4 out of 7 days to eat. managed to limit myself for each gathering
received my gmarket shoes. myverdict..quality wasnpt gd
my heels gave way on my first day aft1 long day out.
auntie may cooked nicecrab dinner n bro 3 bought durian cake...
Sunday, December 16, 2012
Sunday, October 14, 2012
Oct 14.. visited a fren n attended a baby shower.`
Knowing that one of the frens who contacted ovarian cancer at 30 is quite a big shock.
Thus in 1 yr .. in fact 8 months things change. They just got married in Oct 1 2011 . honeymoon and was anticipating their house soon. The future seems promising and a new life to live together. Now its exchanged w weekly hospital visits and chemotherapy to control the conditions.
Life has been fragile and precarious. It strives us to be on high alert and I hope to get it done before my wedding to ensure my health, body both mentally and physically is ready to take up new challenges..
We visited this fren at her place coz she cant go out for risk of infection. At this age where everything is just a start, she swell in tears. I do feel for her since it may be part of her plans to have kids after she has settled her house.
I shall not procastinate on the cervical vacination and get myself vacinned before my 30th birthday.
Thus in 1 yr .. in fact 8 months things change. They just got married in Oct 1 2011 . honeymoon and was anticipating their house soon. The future seems promising and a new life to live together. Now its exchanged w weekly hospital visits and chemotherapy to control the conditions.
Life has been fragile and precarious. It strives us to be on high alert and I hope to get it done before my wedding to ensure my health, body both mentally and physically is ready to take up new challenges..
We visited this fren at her place coz she cant go out for risk of infection. At this age where everything is just a start, she swell in tears. I do feel for her since it may be part of her plans to have kids after she has settled her house.
I shall not procastinate on the cervical vacination and get myself vacinned before my 30th birthday.
Saturday, October 13, 2012
After going through a week of scrutinization..
Been through call monitoring with the Tls.. and it took me while to realise what is " THIS IS WRONG" type of statements on me. Bosses expect work, no odt attitude and all. I survey around I m not the only one that does that anyway.Get over it improve and strive compliance, perfections and choice of words to present to avoid trouble.
Manage to drink like 3x a week.. Tue. Wed. & Friday. I drank at Once upon a bar, bought sheng shiong TW beer...Been to the highest level on Raffles place.. I attitude.. n that when we got down to ground 1... we felt the stress level build up again. so much for city folks.Really did spend far too much but I was happy spending it..
Met new drinking khakis last nite Jasmine and Jolene belong to the no marriage enjoy life moments.. so I was telling her maybe in another 5 years . whens shes 31,36,41 paradigms may shift due to some reasons. They found love and lost love at the same time. after persistently meeting toads they no longer want to meet for the sake of meeting. Jasmine got into a new role and was plague by harassment on SMU boy and as well as accepting new leading roles. Its a gd chance to show how you shine in leading.. good for her although the process is painful.
Panda's fren Jane was diagnosed with stage 3 cancer and thus it came as a big blow . i recall Kee's mum sick as well on his wedding. In a twirl of 1 year, things change. Responsibilities shift, now I see the difference between single young and carefree vs married, mature and plate full with tasks and roles to be entrusted. Now I begin to see the conversation I had with Elena and Serene. If you are ready for such responsibilities then you should stay single to be fair to the other partner.
I was quoting that being in single life its all about myself. me and more me. And when you progress to another level, its about. We. we .. Once made, its difficult to reverse. However I believe moments like this we should all go through.. at least when we leave. we leave a legend behind. I believe I m like the extension self of my mum.. More financially independent. well travelled. exposed educated and varied. Unlike my mum I choose to get married much later like 30.. while my mum met my dad n got married at 21.. at 30 my mum had already give birth to bro 1 n bro 2..
Bro worm at 40 hasnt grasp the concept of fatherhood.. parenting and stability in career. Past 2 days or so dad was in a state of delirium and pacing around.. Till I tweet the problem out and surface it that we should spilt the pocket money and distributely evenly on Wk 2.3& 4 to solve dad's cash flow problems.
Well so much for a week.. on happy events.. we confirmed our videographer. bridal. venue till date Oct 13 2012.. 11 months to upgrading my status to Mdm Sng.. yeah will be heading down to orchard later on w ET to get some new clothes also to shop around in town to feel young.. brush teeth bath .. and prepare breakfast for myself.. 13 Oct 12 929am
Saturday, September 29, 2012
29.9.12 exactly 1 yr to AD 29.9.13
hahahahah auntie VK was sent away for abusing baby corliss... tats leaves the rest of us .. 6 of us to pack n clean the room... tabao dinner . n part time auntie to clean while replacement maid is interviewed n hired..
bought 2909 for 4d n oso 1025 for my chinese wedding.. today oso go pai pai my mum... ok la... going to do my nails mei mei... w new found frens.. Nerine n Joyce n oso going Charlie T w Panda later..
got to shut door properly.. n take bus to tamp mart to Princess Cottage... yum yum.. gtg
bought 2909 for 4d n oso 1025 for my chinese wedding.. today oso go pai pai my mum... ok la... going to do my nails mei mei... w new found frens.. Nerine n Joyce n oso going Charlie T w Panda later..
got to shut door properly.. n take bus to tamp mart to Princess Cottage... yum yum.. gtg
Sunday, September 23, 2012
Back from a holiday n getting used to city life again without the chicken n duck
so much on excessive eatting.. binging n snacking.. was back last afternoon. was missing machap a bit on the kampung n all. listen to the conversation with PM on birth rates and new immigrants .. Had a good catch up w bro as well as bought all the necessary mooncakes for attendance.. do spent a bit more $ this month though.. count down to wedding.. exactly 1 yr n 6 days.. next sat would be exactly 1 yr..
玩的时候时间过真快。。城市和小地方还真不一样。。3天两夜好好充电。。骑着scotter吹凉凉风。。 买kopi 慢慢品尝慢慢晨运别有一番风味。。早上听听公鸡叫。。小地方kampong style 人情味超赞! 虽然城市很有趣。。放慢会归大自然也很enjoy..
都sibei好吃。。每天plan after 吃完。。wats next..
玩的时候时间过真快。。城市和小地方还真不一样。。3天两夜好好充电。。骑着scotter吹凉凉风。。 买kopi 慢慢品尝慢慢晨运别有一番风味。。早上听听公鸡叫。。小地方kampong style 人情味超赞! 虽然城市很有趣。。放慢会归大自然也很enjoy..
都sibei好吃。。每天plan after 吃完。。wats next..
Sunday, September 02, 2012
Happy family time for dinner. Rena's 11th birthday
It was an enjoyable sun dinner although had my usual bicker w panda over him poking my tummy while we took a walk after dinner n also me yelling at him not to disturb me during wee hours in the morning..
In all a happy loud dinner.. had the cupboards dismantled.. auntie may.. Vk n Rena helping me pack m undies n washing the dirty ones which was trapped in my wardrobe.. oh no ..
In all a happy loud dinner.. had the cupboards dismantled.. auntie may.. Vk n Rena helping me pack m undies n washing the dirty ones which was trapped in my wardrobe.. oh no ..
Wednesday, August 29, 2012
280812... passing of an elderly
人生走到尽头，还是有无尽的无奈
毕竟感伤还会有
有喜有悲惋惜的时刻常在心中落幕
日子还是照常过。老朋友你要坚强
愿他会安息，一路走好。
Because you love your loved ones, when they depart theres a sour inner force which pulls your heart and its defined as heart pain or otherwise heart wrenching.
The passing of somone dear usually forces you to look forward to things beyond the passing like debts, funeral expenses, living conditions and how the surviving party would move on
Time for grieving and mourning and also time for picking yourself up.
毕竟感伤还会有
有喜有悲惋惜的时刻常在心中落幕
日子还是照常过。老朋友你要坚强
愿他会安息，一路走好。
Because you love your loved ones, when they depart theres a sour inner force which pulls your heart and its defined as heart pain or otherwise heart wrenching.
The passing of somone dear usually forces you to look forward to things beyond the passing like debts, funeral expenses, living conditions and how the surviving party would move on
Time for grieving and mourning and also time for picking yourself up.
Tuesday, August 28, 2012
Still feeling angry w CYQ this idiot whos inefficient
Its 3.30am in the morning after tossing n turning, i still decided to wake up coz i was still in fact fuming over the chain of events on Mon . The pack of CB faces, the unreasonable requests, the incessant nagging as well as some of the daily ranter.. M i that suitable in the client sector after working for the past 9 years. Or m i just plain wasting my time away in things i m not gd at. One of such incidents are plainly sporadical or just plain unlucky.
I was in fact brain storming how best to resolve such " conflict" with the fellow cyq to trash things out with her once and for all. or simply doing the corporate way top down and use the power of hierarchy to "feedback" and " educate"
In terms of the recipient of customer service, it isle totally unacceptable as a client. after 5 months of taggling. 7-10 working days is crap to me now . there are 2 methods for the dispute in post purchase dissonance.
1) Write a fat complain n CC the lp who cause the delay in my father's claim
2) Cancel the policy after the yearly renewal
3) Chase the payment of the claim of $489 AND TERMINATE VIA FEB 2013
4) Has already decided to change vendor to AIA once this happens
For CYQ , few methods to resolve
1) Transfer when the time comes for more family planning
2) Feedback accordingly and CC to the bosses.
3) Confront the bitch directl
4) Accumulate the no of faults accumulate since it is recorded n compile to a list and sent up to bosses to evaluate.
5) let the matter rest and continue to lun until probation in Dec over
6)the more i think abt it . i more i need to pray to god to keep my cool..
長大越孤單，越長大越不安。我們每天忙忙碌碌，誰還記得小時候那些「大大」的夢想。有多久，沒有停下腳步，哪怕只是單純的曬曬太陽。是誰說，現在的人，科技先進，卻越來越空虛。開著電腦，什麼都不做，也遲遲不肯睡去，長大的代價，是不是就是心裡有填不滿的寂寞。
Thank you for contacting Great Eastern Claims Department.
We will revert to you on your query latest by the next working day.
Thank you for insuring with Great Eastern!
Warmest Regards
Claims Department
Great Eastern Life Assurance Co Ltd
Reg No 1908 00011G
Email : Claims@lifeisgreat.com.sg
In response to:
Re: Policy 89830540 claims follow up - Feedback on our displeasure
sam sng
to:
May Chea, kylinn Goon
28/08/2012 05:37 AM
Cc:
Felix Sng, Moi Jan, sng wee seng, Sam,
"Claims-SG@greateasternlife.com"
Please respond to sam sng
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Hi Kylinn,
Good morning!
This is to express my displeasure for the poor service follow up rendered
for a $489 claim submitted in Mar 2012. The second part is on the same
duplicate claim form mailed to us again on 5 May 2012 to complete items
which we have already mailed out. Referring to previous email, we have to
provide you the soft copy which proves our submission earlier. For a period
of Mar12 - Aug 2012 for pending MR from Pasir Ris polyclinic, for policy
holders like us it is totally unacceptable. Also from my understanding , on
standard grounds the reimbursement should be only 7-10 working days if
submission of the mandatory documents are completed.
Understand from claims, this was passed from 1 claim officer to another
staff who is the current person handling this claim. Current status is to
pend for Pasir Ris MR report which has been updated to us since the last
email dated somewhere in July or Aug 2012.From Dec 2011 to Feb 2012, we
have to let the old man go through the routine checkups to ensure his urine
test is normal and efforts are also done on our end. We have done our part
however when event occurs, we are unable to stop such unfortunate events to
occur within the first year of insuring. As a child yourself, and as
consumer point of view, this is a disappointment. Had the sum being a
larger amount like $40,000 instead, we would have to pay from our own
pockets again and wait 5 months and still waiting for status. If $400 was
a low sum or even negligible then a hefty bill would have been taken longer
to process. Based on your recommendation, we took your advice to obtain the
best premium hospitalisation plans for private hospital claims which cost
us nearly $3000, approximately close to $1000 each sibling to fork out for
our dad , countless check-ups for my elderly dad to go through to get it
inforced.For our loved one, we took this policy despite the exclusions
which was imposed for kidney and prostate related medical conditions.
Frankly,it would be difficult for us to continue the renewal in Feb 2013 if
the first encounter with the GE SHP P plus plan is so difficult to obtain
claim status and reimbursement. We would have no choice but to switch
insurer come Feb 2013 when it is due.
Appreciate if you could expedite and provide status for the claim on
89830540 soonest.
Otherwise we would cancel this policy when it is due for renewal in 2013.
Sincerly hope this is the last email we have to send you or claims to get
it settled and cased closed.
Yours sincerely.
Sam
We will revert to you on your query latest by the next working day.
Thank you for insuring with Great Eastern!
Warmest Regards
Claims Department
Great Eastern Life Assurance Co Ltd
Reg No 1908 00011G
Email : Claims@lifeisgreat.com.sg
In response to:
Re: Policy 89830540 claims follow up - Feedback on our displeasure
sam sng
to:
May Chea, kylinn Goon
28/08/2012 05:37 AM
Cc:
Felix Sng, Moi Jan, sng wee seng, Sam,
"Claims-SG@greateasternlife.com"
Please respond to sam sng
Show Details
Hi Kylinn,
Good morning!
This is to express my displeasure for the poor service follow up rendered
for a $489 claim submitted in Mar 2012. The second part is on the same
duplicate claim form mailed to us again on 5 May 2012 to complete items
which we have already mailed out. Referring to previous email, we have to
provide you the soft copy which proves our submission earlier. For a period
of Mar12 - Aug 2012 for pending MR from Pasir Ris polyclinic, for policy
holders like us it is totally unacceptable. Also from my understanding , on
standard grounds the reimbursement should be only 7-10 working days if
submission of the mandatory documents are completed.
Understand from claims, this was passed from 1 claim officer to another
staff who is the current person handling this claim. Current status is to
pend for Pasir Ris MR report which has been updated to us since the last
email dated somewhere in July or Aug 2012.From Dec 2011 to Feb 2012, we
have to let the old man go through the routine checkups to ensure his urine
test is normal and efforts are also done on our end. We have done our part
however when event occurs, we are unable to stop such unfortunate events to
occur within the first year of insuring. As a child yourself, and as
consumer point of view, this is a disappointment. Had the sum being a
larger amount like $40,000 instead, we would have to pay from our own
pockets again and wait 5 months and still waiting for status. If $400 was
a low sum or even negligible then a hefty bill would have been taken longer
to process. Based on your recommendation, we took your advice to obtain the
best premium hospitalisation plans for private hospital claims which cost
us nearly $3000, approximately close to $1000 each sibling to fork out for
our dad , countless check-ups for my elderly dad to go through to get it
inforced.For our loved one, we took this policy despite the exclusions
which was imposed for kidney and prostate related medical conditions.
Frankly,it would be difficult for us to continue the renewal in Feb 2013 if
the first encounter with the GE SHP P plus plan is so difficult to obtain
claim status and reimbursement. We would have no choice but to switch
insurer come Feb 2013 when it is due.
Appreciate if you could expedite and provide status for the claim on
89830540 soonest.
Otherwise we would cancel this policy when it is due for renewal in 2013.
Sincerly hope this is the last email we have to send you or claims to get
it settled and cased closed.
Yours sincerely.
Sam
Sunday, August 26, 2012
update of the week.. source video vendor. + family time _^
a good time to write.. task of the week for GE
get familiarise with forms. Oac & GE
This week ended with my 50 calls per wk KPI achieved avg 50-56 calls per day at about 6-7 calls per hr.. hapi
however still unsure on some of the SOPS so still can get nagged somehow.. bleah
Chop my leave for 21-22 28,29 leave slot for marriage photo session.. yeah
Called La belle to book n also find out prices for family portrait at $150 close to $600.
finalise video vendor. select
Just married $1288 free $70 montage
V-in $1388 or $1188
Urban $1188
all at 10 hrs express
family catch up with the family. yum cha with dad.. done.. lim $0.90 kopi & marketing at lor ah soo w Bro2 n auntie may .. watched the diamond club n its hilarious.. haha
one of the task. swim or go energy sculpt before steamboat dinner haha.. n watch a bit of my korean drama. SIGN KOREAN CSI
2 "canes" bought to " reset" kids... haha
later dinner time w e Wangs n Mdm Bong.
hope is stress free with Md Bong nagging less on family allowances and a happy sun famly bonding dinner
Wednesday, August 22, 2012
Angry Pork day!!!! GONG CB... ATB. PUI
22/8/2012 8:34:10 PM Samantha Sng Eng pheng Wang just now i quarrel with ATB
22/8/2012 8:34:51 PM Samantha Sng Eng pheng Wang in 2009 she insist her benefit never claim to her when she stay hospital in china. after 30 min. i a bit fed up. say i wil print the 2009 statement n let her c. she got nothing no chq . no receipt
22/8/2012 8:35:15 PM Samantha Sng Eng pheng Wang n she claim did not pay her $75/day for 14 days she hospital ard $1k like tat .
22/8/2012 8:35:21 PM Samantha Sng Eng pheng Wang argue beri long .. jin TL
22/8/2012 8:35:45 PM Eng pheng Wang Samantha Sng den
22/8/2012 8:36:46 PM Samantha Sng Eng pheng Wang then i ask her if she keep any photocopy of her invoices
22/8/2012 8:36:49 PM Samantha Sng Eng pheng Wang she say she throw
22/8/2012 8:37:03 PM Samantha Sng Eng pheng Wang wa lau. cannot tell me exact amt n say we cheat her
22/8/2012 8:37:07 PM Samantha Sng Eng pheng Wang si ATB
22/8/2012 8:37:10 PM Samantha Sng Eng pheng Wang pui
22/8/2012 8:38:19 PM Eng pheng Wang Samantha Sng hahaa
22/8/2012 8:38:23 PM Eng pheng Wang Samantha Sng si at bu
22/8/2012 8:39:00 PM Eng pheng Wang Samantha Sng go plan ur dec leave lar
22/8/2012 8:39:13 PM Eng pheng Wang Samantha Sng take dec 22-24
22/8/2012 8:39:37 PM Samantha Sng Eng pheng Wang ok la.. my brithday leave many ppl on leave
22/8/2012 8:39:41 PM Samantha Sng Eng pheng Wang but i will try
22/8/2012 8:39:43 PM Eng pheng Wang Samantha Sng and dec 19-21
22/8/2012 8:39:47 PM Samantha Sng Eng pheng Wang n check schedule
22/8/2012 8:39:49 PM Samantha Sng Eng pheng Wang its which day
22/8/2012 8:39:52 PM Samantha Sng Eng pheng Wang dec 19
22/8/2012 8:40:02 PM Samantha Sng Eng pheng Wang got ppl quit again haha
22/8/2012 8:40:09 PM Eng pheng Wang Samantha Sng dec 26-28
22/8/2012 8:40:10 PM Samantha Sng Eng pheng Wang i quarrel with the ppl from claims today.
22/8/2012 8:40:17 PM Samantha Sng Eng pheng Wang today kenna say by them
22/8/2012 8:40:28 PM Samantha Sng Eng pheng Wang they say i write harsh email
22/8/2012 8:40:33 PM Samantha Sng Eng pheng Wang Fuck them lor
22/8/2012 8:40:53 PM Eng pheng Wang Samantha Sng ghaha
22/8/2012 8:40:56 PM Eng pheng Wang Samantha Sng fark them
22/8/2012 8:41:59 PM Samantha Sng Eng pheng Wang ya lor . i kenna fark by cust . n they say i harsh
22/8/2012 8:42:06 PM Samantha Sng Eng pheng Wang ask them eat shit first then come n talk to me
22/8/2012 8:42:27 PM Samantha Sng Eng pheng Wang then i beri smart i email the whole of claims. msia. brunei . indonesia. all receive m email. damn..
22/8/2012 8:42:30 PM Samantha Sng Eng pheng Wang so sia sway
22/8/2012 8:43:38 PM Eng pheng Wang Samantha Sng wahaha
22/8/2012 8:44:02 PM Eng pheng Wang Samantha Sng so meAN
22/8/2012 8:44:57 PM Samantha Sng Eng pheng Wang wat a dumb assshole
22/8/2012 8:45:06 PM Samantha Sng Eng pheng Wang 2009 matter. kp in 2012
22/8/2012 8:45:12 PM Samantha Sng Eng pheng Wang 3 yrs dunno for wat neber complain
22/8/2012 8:45:16 PM Samantha Sng Eng pheng Wang jin jia lat.
22/8/2012 8:45:46 PM Samantha Sng Eng pheng Wang tml i will print out all the cheques issued out for jan 2009 - dec 2010 n put in the bloody envelop and ask her check w her bloody ocbc account if she deposit in
22/8/2012 8:45:58 PM Samantha Sng Eng pheng Wang make my last call of today so long . pui
22/8/2012 8:46:20 PM Samantha Sng Eng pheng Wang the claims oso quite mean ask me read product manual then go n talk to them
22/8/2012 8:46:22 PM Samantha Sng Eng pheng Wang fine lor .
22/8/2012 8:46:29 PM Samantha Sng Eng pheng Wang GCB
22/8/2012 8:46:39 PM Eng pheng Wang Samantha Sng LOLOL
22/8/2012 8:46:48 PM Samantha Sng Eng pheng Wang gong cb. lor
22/8/2012 8:47:02 PM Samantha Sng Eng pheng Wang i talk like 5x repeat the same thing for abt 45 min when i call back
22/8/2012 8:47:36 PM Samantha Sng Eng pheng Wang i told that atb gcb. no more outstanding. already fully paid no $75X14 days of hospitalisation benefit for the stay in china.
22/8/2012 8:47:54 PM Samantha Sng Eng pheng Wang i tink i look ber i fierce just nw. ,y coleague poke me n i almost eat her up
22/8/2012 8:48:01 PM Samantha Sng Eng pheng Wang when she touch me when i was on my phone
22/8/2012 8:48:35 PM Eng pheng Wang Samantha Sng so serious for wat
22/8/2012 8:49:15 PM Samantha Sng Eng pheng Wang serious la .
22/8/2012 8:49:17 PM Samantha Sng Eng pheng Wang was insulted
22/8/2012 8:49:38 PM Samantha Sng Eng pheng Wang another ATB oso refuse to pay interest n say his wife forge his signature never take loan.
22/8/2012 8:49:45 PM Samantha Sng Eng pheng Wang ask to waive $300
22/8/2012 8:49:52 PM Samantha Sng Eng pheng Wang ATB . n chow ah neh. my most hated list
22/8/2012 8:49:57 PM Samantha Sng Eng pheng Wang hate them deep deep!
22/8/2012 8:50:19 PM Eng pheng Wang Samantha Sng kaka
22/8/2012 8:51:02 PM Samantha Sng Eng pheng Wang actually is him who take loan n sign . somemore got cctv
22/8/2012 8:51:21 PM Samantha Sng Eng pheng Wang in the end. guess wat it was waived .athough this $ this another AH TIONG should pay
22/8/2012 8:51:28 PM Samantha Sng Eng pheng Wang interest 6%
22/8/2012 8:51:58 PM Samantha Sng Eng pheng Wang i tink abt it need milo dinosaur to calm down
22/8/2012 8:52:05 PM Samantha Sng Eng pheng Wang although happen 2 hrs ago. still bui song
22/8/2012 8:52:08 PM Samantha Sng Eng pheng Wang BUI SONGAH !!
22/8/2012 8:53:45 PM Eng pheng Wang Samantha Sng kakakaka
22/8/2012 8:54:13 PM Samantha Sng Eng pheng Wang actually this one should be argue between claims and that GongCB
22/8/2012 8:54:16 PM Samantha Sng Eng pheng Wang not me leh
22/8/2012 8:54:21 PM Samantha Sng Eng pheng Wang coz i dun pay to them
22/8/2012 8:54:30 PM Samantha Sng Eng pheng Wang coz its their call
22/8/2012 8:58:42 PM Eng pheng Wang Samantha Sng ok lar
22/8/2012 8:58:43 PM Eng pheng Wang Samantha Sng relax
22/8/2012 9:03:07 PM Eng pheng Wang Samantha Sng 9pm show
22/8/2012 9:58:54 PM Samantha Sng Eng pheng Wang i got c a bit
22/8/2012 9:58:59 PM Samantha Sng Eng pheng Wang beri cute du lao shi
22/8/2012 9:59:04 PM Samantha Sng Eng pheng Wang a bit like my character
22/8/2012 9:59:07 PM Samantha Sng Eng pheng Wang today i m angry pork
22/8/2012 9:59:16 PM Samantha Sng Eng pheng Wang my heart angry unti l i feel a bit pain
22/8/2012 9:59:59 PM Samantha Sng Eng pheng Wang tml need go some stretch classes to relax
Monday, August 20, 2012
Ichiro Films.. nice one
I promise that you never have to go to sleep angry or feel that your love is taken for granted. I will continue to hold your hands even if my other hand have to clutch on a walking stick.. this is a good wedding vow...
Saturday, August 18, 2012
Panda birthday n i m lying on my bed instead of his bed
Total burst out when i decide that i want to go home n sleep in my own bed. n to protect my own interests i have no choice but to say things to her subtly in the eyes of a 3rd party now staying in a family of 8.
相距容易。同住. 难...
Usual topics the old hag hoggers about lack of allowance n short payment . Heard lots of it
so solution stay separately. no need to face domestic issues every day with old hag.
Was tired about everything about today. started off family dispute for Ph. separate death claim cheques between step mum n daughter over deceased. then the idiotic cYQ qho does not answer calls. emails n puts everything on hold.
so as a result nth caller complains on the cheque issue again.. so i instant message he and say the PH is VERY FURIOUS. so i txt one day should your family oso in need of claims beware of kharma urself when u receive claims proceeds many months later. also the ph had this growl aft the 6 or 7th call that she might be dead before her $$ rolls in. lol.. so for the record of such idiotic claim colleagues.
Her style of works sucks, if she think she can bury in her shit hole can does processing the answer is no.
one day if i really lose my cool. i will go right up her cubicle n then give her a good nice thrashing straight in her face . n i just transfer calls up to her shit hole DID.for what shes doing. its ineffective. it pisses ppl off n affect biz reputation.
claims to me may be a new thing but if there is no firm attitude to biz. it would be never ending.
I realise when i sound more hostile n netural i invite lesser trouble. For a track record, it has affected my day and also my EQ with Panda.
on his bdae eve, i decided to get my butt of his bed n go straight home before I run into hysterical bersek.
dinner was great. 4 dishes $50..
my theory if wan to give treat then dun stinge on $ if wan to stinge on $ dun bother give treats. spend $ n be sad wat for .
As for the Bongs n Wangs episode had enough of the allowance not enough syndrome. decide to go lesser n use less water. Stay at home in room most save $.. had also enough of bro 2 nonsense. decide to avoid him for a while n do my own things. a bit pissed off with his style of ruling his kids whatever.
Dad cant say hes on the best of his behavior . but consider stable
call centre. stable income. boring scope.
claims colleagues Suck big time.
claims even took like more than 5 months to be admitted.
CYQ really press my button for today and now at 1 am i m still harping on CYQ. m curious how her bloody face looked like maybe should just google linked in around.
sat Lido movie w the gals.. BFF..
sat dinner movie w panda.. ramen play
Sun.. Ivy.. orchard..
Mon loyang pek kong w dad..
To end today i m happy i choose to go home. really not in a good state of mind to stay in bong residence with all those mouldy smell dog fur. cockroach n filth.
get out first or roarrr........
Wednesday, August 15, 2012
有太多意料不到的不如意，与其跟自己过不去。不如让自己更开心。生活和生命毕竟属各人选择。好好对待自己何尝不是件好事。。。
年少青狂谁没有。。叛逆时期总是看父母不顺眼。嫌他们唠唠叨叨，长大了才会觉得跟时间赛跑。。紧紧把握每一个天天相处的时间吧！哪天百年以后问心无愧 ^_
Tuesday, August 14, 2012
A normal Tue morning after a Monday blue day
Manage to scrap through Mon. again didnt had this 50 calls per day shit.
Had facial, long chat w Peggy my facial expert since 2008. engage her service for 2 yrs n then i break to study n neglected my skin.
my second half of the agenda. care for my body n skin then becomes my next goal. shall i say no to macdonalds for lunch again in order to watch my weight.
Shall I then be more strict that i should go at least 2 wkdays for gym since I have the tendency to slack on weekends.
My next indulgence . shall i get a SAMsung SIII or a note.. or save the $$ FIRST UNTIL the iphone 3GS cannot make it.. 14 days to renewal contract.
5 days to payday since 19th is not a working day..
1 yr has passed. many friends getting married, how many are truly blissful. Happy in their marriage.
Does shot gun marriage lasts, and if the man is not really to commit would it really make of a difference if they were compelled to be fathers where in their heart they stil yearn to be kids who never grow up.
Hopping marriage would change the mindset is only 1 sided thinking it would happen ideally.
My last trump card when I have no in law support.
Learn to be a good mother, wife. daughter. sis. daughter in law n gd fren.
One of my old pal tell me, I got this trick of filling up people's gap when they talk or this completion of the social butterfly knack.
Its not that i like to be a social buterly.. tb its inborned.
Solution to MDB's infamous living habits, learn to ignore certain stupidities and console myself its know my fault that people do not know what questions to avoid and wht not to ask n the art of speaking w Tact n respect for others so people wont get easily offended and worked up. Its like a angry button. once Poked cant be deflated.
N some people are just so S enough not to sense it.
Its inborned in the genes, if i stay cool n uncontrolled perhaps i could control my sanity better and not let anger get the better of me.
Life is precious. do not risk higher BP n let my mother;s curse continue..
Tiger Flying CLub.. here i come... destress watch yandaos..
Saturday, August 11, 2012
17th year of Mum's death anniversary
After a long day at work, manage to shut down n leave by 6.20pm after my email suddenly die on me.. Some communication breakdown among 2 parties and there goes my lunch but what to do.. its part of the job. so much to think it would be a smooth day today.
Had to send out some last min help n help desk..
Still manage to shut it off..
Warm dinner at ah ma's had a great chat with her n sharing since the last meet up was in CNY FEB 2012 almost 6 months since I last chat up with ah ma.
While ah ma was reminiscent on the past and how she raise my mum as child when she was 3yr old. n when mum passed on when shes 46 my ah ma still vividly remembers. The next thing was my ah gu whos unmarried n she was blaming herself if she did anything wrong in the past therefore uncle choose to remain golden bachelor n of coz parents do not stop worrying for kids. Her concern was if my uncle would be alone old n lonely.. As usual when she thinks of mum and how she passed on that fateful night she cant help it but start tearing away,
Even the young ones falling,, crying.. n with MY.. we need to use the "scare" tactic to tame him using "nine nine would knock on your door if you misbehave" lol..
But of coz we cant comment much as the xiao bei. To remain single or not is an individual's choice , still got to respect one;s decision.
Was advising ah ma, to be at this age. Old graceful, healthy and wise was more important. Able to walk freely.. mental state of mind gd. Ah ma is indeed older.. 80 yrs old this year.. Ah ma leads a healthy lifestyle of exercising daily, naps although her concentration is not so gd. She usually falls asleep while reading the news and after her cataracts operation, she tells me her sight is not as gd as before. At 79 , shes one of the fittest ah ma i seen walking steadily though the dishes she whip hasnt changed much over the years. And for many years I learnt to take things on my stride coz maybe for initial years I would tink my mum's sudden loss was a big blow to the family with no pillar. But now after many years, it has evolved. Now the pillar has an extention, life is great! as the slogan says. Not everyday is sunny. While dark clouds gather, there would be sunny days after the storm. We grown to be each other's pillar of strength and encourage each other when we are under the weather. We learnt to move on, to grow n love as well as to forgive. Now that I am going to have a new extended family with the Wangs after 13 months offically, not only i learn to accommodate other's short comings, i've learnt to accept for who they are. As human, they may not be correct always. But ppl learn n for love, since its selfless, it then comes second nature then I believe. There are new roles regenerated just like how my mum choose to be w my dad tat hes naggy, slim and blur, We learn to accept imperfections for no matter how much we plan, there are some regrets which cannot be wiped away. It then remains somewhere for scars to fade away. Its also the pain which reminds us to be strong n to stand while we fall. So after we stand up, we learn to walk steadily in the long unknown path.
Many yrs many a time, we would not know how, and where we lead to. M glad I choose not to go Malacca if not I would missed the time catching up with Ah ma. Would not know hw she strives everyday productively.. wake u at 4 or 5 on a morning stroll.. power naps afternoon n her naps on sofa. She was telling me her walking khaki reduce staff strength.
N in insurance industry, the mishaps, misfortunes in life reminds how lucky we are with our loved ones. On this day my mum;s special day.. Sometimes it dawns on me that mum;s early departure may b loss, but m proud to have inherited her joyfulness, cheerful positive spirit and endearing attitude to make things work..
For old people, the wants would have been diminished over the years and gets diluted. Much of their wishes would have to enjoy tian lun zhi le.. healthy n happy.
Over the past 2 mths coming to 3 mths in GE, have seen n witness much sad stories. Life;s a cycle. Quoted from bro 2, while we are young, our parents take care of us and while we are older we need ppl to take care of us. N for all these years the cycle hasn changed much. N much as I welcome Sat. I hope AGum n Ayi would burry the hatchet so Ah ma wont feel so sad over the sibling fight. Over small argument family fight for too long is no good.. try to give n take a bit.. make the elders happy. Easier said than done. If Bro worm n bro 2 would talk again would b good.. amicable at least
I have been grateful both the elderly. Dad n ah ma . They may not have been in the pink of health w slight imperfections. At least they could still lead normal activities. N while I m saving for the upcoming wedding.. I have tried to tell myself for this year although I have more time for studies. More $ has been apportioned for wedding.. n much as i can only bring dad to cheap n budget outings. hope by the time i m done with the housing n wedding, stil can bring dad for a short trip after settling all these tasks.. meantime no big ticket holiday.. Kopi treat.. extra pocket money movies .. gifts are the only more feasibly things to do.
Well maybe we r average, at least we are happy. Although we cant stay happy all the time, we try to accommodate. Every family has its own soap opera. but this is how we continue to irritate each other n still stay together as family. family shall not forsake each other.. If mum could have seen me wear a wedding dress n have kids then it would not have been this regretful....Nevertheless we are a tough family which stays united in sharing our bills n love..
What a night.. full of thoughts after a chat w ah ma..
Thursday, August 09, 2012
Happy National Day 9.8.2012
Had $10ktv w Joanna. AM, Bro 2 , n bro 3.. Provided bro 3 friendly loan $50. Had dinner, marked attendance with Md Bong. Old Mrs Bong ah po n a fren of hers in Boon hwa.. Mdm Ong Ong. aka Bong strike 4d again.. $6k for xiao hong. 5059..
We had ba chor mee after the ktv ended at 1 am ... This morning manage some time off with lau pei.. breakfast n lunch..
I love my city sunny days.. la la lala.
My bro2 was lecturing.. ah ling life is a cycle when we reach to a age, we need other ppl to take care of us when we are old.
Whether you like her a not, she will become your mother when u marry him.
If you start treating her like ur own mum, perhaps you would have her interests and live amicably together.
Tuesday, August 07, 2012
a nite. out with E Lian Na.. ang mo lian n Serene
Its been a year since I sat down dinner face to face with Elena. Today included Serene as well..preggy mother in town.. circular st.. had some ranmen n ..tea n heineken after dinner. Dinner treat by E.lian..
Shes changed after a year. still as melancholy. Hates n love her job. goes home 9,10pm daily. shifted to Kent hill some posh condos near scotts. her dog passed on n she didnt really get over it much. She has this shaking hand syndrome which requires medication. It could be her.. her quote is relationship phobic n that is hindering her from meeting new men in her life after Guy.. She still loves him but she choose to end the relationship.
Rich. but still as usual unhappy w her mum whos an exact mould of her. stubborn strong headed and mood swings.
Shared a little bit on my upcoming plans.She was sharing with me today. problems w Mdm Bong n her unsightly habits..
that love should be self sacrificing.. selfless n initiated willingly..How many normal folks have that kind of enduring spirit. This is for housewives of the past era.. Women now are equally capable. Financially stable . Well educated and exposed.
Yes marriage means married to the husband's family.
Lily.. happily married w a son. Lucas..
Serene.. expecting dragon boy in 1 month.. 110912..
Elena happily travelling. diving trips.. career building.. maternal instincts..Zerrooo...
Her advice if i continue to be getting my way
. it indicates recipe for disaster potentially. Getting a man to choose between wife and mother.
How a man treats his mother will reflect how he treats his wife.. hahaha..
I do have a lot to overcome. maybe bad hygiene habits.. n diets are one of the few areas I cant accommodate yet.
Each family member has a equally troublesome person to deal with...
Looking back 5/8/2012. YY is 9 n Baby Corliss is 3 yesterday. The family had fun in PAsir ris recreation Mac.. followed by bowling in dt east. Has been a long time since the family had a wonderful time.. My dad bowled well w many strikes.. we bowl w bro3.. Yao Long. michelle n Panda Pheng..
At around 11.30pm while sleeping halfway. my dad yelled n scream. He must have been complacent n stopped his medication when he thought hes ok.
Wedding is for a day. marriage is for life. Y fuss over it when it cannot withstands the hardship n trials..
every morning after 29/9/13 I want to wake up n tell myself i make a gd choice when i sign the dotted line.
No matter what happens this big bear is someone i w live with n take care of each other as long as we live..
The part of me being self centred n wilful.. stubborn. short temper..greedy and impatient..
I tink whatever the long path ahead.. I should love his mother like how i love mine.
And family dun bear grudges. As a da sao.. have to be less ji jiao .. more open.. less narrow minded . more resourceful. tactful n dutiful... Its difficult doing .. executing than just saying it as a bystander.. So as a wife, i should place family above all interest as form of mindset..Although I may lugi a bit in the long run everybody but me is happi..What to do.. a single mother after 20 yrs of slogging would i want to c her stranded n lonely in her old age.. thats being infillal.. aint it... Put up with a grouchy woman... option 2. bear w her nonsense n hopes she could change..pray for improvements.. hahah wishful thinking...
Change myself n my mindset probabbly easier..
And this shortly defines boring marriage mundane life...I m unsure if i m already dreading that day..
n life after 30 means commitment to the family. the house . the chores. the in laws. the parents. the kids. the colleagues... n be a super super mum ....
its like 13 months to Mdm Sng.. Mrs Wang.. Sept 29 2013
7 months to photoshooting.. Mar 2013
10 months to food tasting.. June 2013
I think of it. as a project in parts to complete tasks. quotes. evaluating. negotiating. compromising n enduring as a daughter in law. sis in law.
wife. mother. daughter n many other roles..
After 13 months.. endless contractor shopping n furnishing.. furniture shopping n chores..
This is marriage.. responsibilities n commitments..
Wednesday, August 01, 2012
早上想的字词灵感
首先感谢大家抽空。
谢谢我的家人，父母亲的养育。英平妈妈。还有表姐，姐妹和兄弟团。
还有亲人，老公给我的包容和谦让。一路走来很感激身边关心支持我。
英平和我很荣幸分享我们的喜悦，
今天是我和英平开始的起跑点。往后要一起过日子by
收到大家的祝福，我们很开心
往后还有很长我哥哥常常讲。我们会一起好好进营婚姻。
最后还有未嫁或娶的朋友，希望你也找到幸福！
enjoy ur dinner, 如果有招待不周请多多包含
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谢谢我的家人，父母亲的养育。英平妈妈。还有表姐，姐妹和兄弟团。
还有亲人，老公给我的包容和谦让。一路走来很感激身边关心支持我。
英平和我很荣幸分享我们的喜悦，
今天是我和英平开始的起跑点。往后要一起过日子by
收到大家的祝福，我们很开心
往后还有很长我哥哥常常讲。我们会一起好好进营婚姻。
最后还有未嫁或娶的朋友，希望你也找到幸福！
enjoy ur dinner, 如果有招待不周请多多包含
Sent from my iPhone
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