to me getting married is the idea of moving out legally
to have own matrimonial asset
n to have some form of freedom
avoid conflict at home
changes after i became a " tenant "
ground rules no
snacks in the fridge
no cola.
no excessive candies
no bubble tea for kids n ah gong
no messy table
no more personal toilet
Last sun i was awakened by some freak bus again aft TPE ppl like to accelerate n try to show off n the loyang ave resident here needs to listen to ipod to have some sleep
roll down blinder.
n on the very first nite on 15 Jan 2011 when i shifted in . i was truly unaware of all the ground rules so on sat night.
i happily watched incredible tales & then kids follow . family was in in disequilibrium just becoz i watched tv. e baby refuse to sleep n cry until 1am odd ..
n so happen on my veri first nite as a pasir ris resident.. my stuffy room has 2 lights on. the side light outside my bro's room and the altar light.
so as a result my room became a light bulb and then with the baby crying + a stuffy game = a beri and fed up
" tenant "
on the veri next nite.. i did not on the tv after 10pm anymore n i stick to streaming tv via tudou and mobtv... with foc wireless and that's e only happy ting ard coz i find that my bro under utilize the internet service at home.
Therefore i promise myself
no wood furniture in my own house
my own tv in my own room for my drama
windows is a must in my house.. no stuffy rooms like a mini storeroom
crap the rule of n o snacks
i want cola in my fridge
i wan junk food everywhere
i wan my table big n nice
i wan my cupboard perfect no shaky cupboards
i would not buy a house in front of a freaking bus stop that has bus sounds from 5am in the morning n till late in the morning coz there are night riders.
lastly less of clean freak brother. a nagging father n neighbours who have dogs that bark whenever i pass by my unit.
n that will make me quite happy to stay in the house
out of the 13 hrs i counted 7.25am - 8pm when i reach little woody hill house in Loyang.
after running errands since 8.45 am since i left e house. e room is so freakingwarm that i cant nap for my usually 2-3 hrs kinds of beauty sleep. even 30 min is a luxury now.. i lost my way when bus 3 went up to TPe to Punggol prive. n i was half hating mys3elf for wats-apping n complaining.
there are 2 hrs of travelling time inclusive of abt 1 hr lunch time n abt 10 hrs working time."
n there's this thing that annoys me even till now when the "landlord" passes remark like y aren't u sleeping
y did u switch on so many lights
y must u open the side door ( still in the mini store room)
y u so late still watch tv
y u eat so much
n the remarks on the co landlord.
if i wait till your daughter get married. my kids would no longer require people to fetch them around. and this sentence still bugs me to the core.
i was tin king if i propose to the old man that I m staying w my husband n co habitat . would he have any violent objection.
i haven't had a good nite sleep since i swop in this room either. I EITHER get wake up by buses or baby crying non stop with no snooze function
reason 1 : I m a light sleeper, sensitive to noise.
reason 2 : the bus is just endless with motor and airplanes
reason 3: its exam week. i need a quiet room
reason 4 : the kids like to buzz ard in my room
reason 5: my room unlike my dark room in my old house has less of such noise and I do not have to share toilet w 5 ppl
n on sundays i do noT need to walk 10 mins to get my dump AT LOYANG PT
n becoz of this.. i m still veri pissed off n regretful my Dad still choose to give in n sell the house becoz of the grandchildren
Ultimately it does not benefit me at all. except perks like free meals
n partime nanny
n my bro likes to pass this remark,, its good training for u when u have kids in future. its like this
my remark was.. i m still not ready for kids. n clearly my quiet room of 2 occupants when multiple to 4 times of 8 ppl is 4 times my threshold
n the record is I m free to do anything in the house. n tats includes lying on the floor to watch tv. or just simply lying around.
although i pay a premium much more than i m paying now. the daily to n fro of 1 hr ride do not seem to justify the travel .
I want to get married but then not becoz i want to get out of the house. i would prefer it to b i m ready to settle down n start a family
n the above mentioned obstacles just hinder me to get a house.
the hdb ruling states if i m staying with a sibling as a Singaporean sibling i cant get hdb until i m 35 so till i m freaking 7 yrs in this house . then i can releASE MYSELF OF ALL THIS NONSENSE &CRAP.
Buying bubble tea for my own dad n niece oso stirs some issue frm the landlord..come on la its not as if no TV produce scholars in the house.. Dream on..
N if everything is as planned as you think so , hire police for wat ...
Back to books less of grumbling n fuck tat noise.. ya i believe nt many ppl can stand sleeping a room with moving cars all day long.
IN SHORT I HATE EVERYTHING ABT LOYANG AVE. PASIR STREET 13 N I DISLIKE N DREAD STAYING IN MY ROOM WITH ALL THE " NOISE. DURING MY EXAM WEEK
N THE THOUGHT OF GOING BACK TO SCHOOL AFT 10.30PM FROM LITTLE INDIA TO LOYANG AVE IN MAR FOR CONSECTIVELY 4 DAYS IN A ROW DOESNT REALLY MAKE MY MOOD ANY BETTER.
12 apr 2011 e old house will then belongs to another owner.. wat a sad thought.. my toilet is gone.. my room. my childhood n my home.
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