omelete sandwich for the didi n myself

0925
woke up ard 730.. t o have some quality time with landlord and didi.. got to find his singlet for him update later... joinin lau pei.. bro 3 n didi for bf

160109 woke up at 7 today

woke up at 7 today with my bai bai teddy bear.. recently i have the habit of hugging the teddy bear.. so guniang to sleep alone in a new room all dark n quiet..and my cao cao becoz i feel so insecure these days.. i hear noises and i get worried. perhaps i m still getting used to this new environment.
i overheard my nephew saying bye bye mummy so i decided to wake up..
anyway i cant sleep much recently despite being so exhuasted these days. i m just waiting for fri to end soon so i can relax..
running around like a aimless housefly in the lame apron is not funny at all. sometimes i play along with customers..
client A : ah muay.. one plate chay kway teow
myself: ok.. uncle .. ai huam mai.. ?
client A & myself : waahhahahahahahhahaahh ...
i been educating landlord to be strong headed in order to protect herself
afterall shes a manager must know when to stand up for her rights and not be bullied easily given the right channel and level of authority she has .
i got to leave the house by 8.45 latest. still got about 15 mins of ranting..

tired day.. 150109 time of the day to pay bills.. payday .. paymyself. pay other ppl

at 9.30 i was still in ubi branch.. cash was not balanced n the latest new i heard they left ard 10odd 11 after they viewed the cctv.. omg was starving right from 8pm onwards so finally we walked out of the branch byatch sharleen n i to bedok central at 9.45pm to eat botak jones so at 10.15pm the ppl told us it was closed.. so disappointing.. so we ate this coffeshop at 333..well i tot i was going empty handed but in the end i find that its a bit wasted so i decided to thrash to diet.. according from sharleen. the hockien mee is a must try there.. but iordered the chi ja hockien mee instead..haizz too bad la. but next time can try
so now after transfering the necessary rental. bills i feel so poor now.
just nw got so scared walking back to my block coz i was unfamiliar to this new neighbourhood..tot someone was following me,,omg so i decided to avoid the dark lanes and walk faster,,all thanks to sharleen told me so many horror stories on how "dirty"some lanes are..
managed to change a fortune pack for dad. but i decided not to go home last min coz chances r he might nag at me again.. anyway i oso left branch ard 10.. nt a gd timing oso
the price of freedom these days is indeed not that cheap but i tell myself i will pull my socks together and manage a tighter budget on my own as well
its not the end of the world
n panda just got his timetable n it suck badly ,but well its for a better future so heck it anyway.a lot of tings are weighing heavily on me. i got to vacate my room latest by 9/2/09.
lau pei will rent it out.. auntie may just text me earlier at 7 odd.. when i saw the text.. i got a little upset but nt for too long coz i was calculating the cost to move my stuff, whethert to get a lorry, van or friends to help me.hopefully to get all shifted soon.. then it will be load off myshoulders.
0011
another 2 days to sat.......looking forward to sat nap time

一种说不出的难过

曾几何时旧家变得格外陌生
昨晚去佩云的家送红包和新钞搭车的途中我经过我曾经熟悉的环境。
可是我忽然觉得好没用家的归属感
收拾心情我渐渐离家越来越远。当下我决定要更独立更坚强。
我坚信一切只会更好。
以往的任性，高傲要必定搁在一边。
我深信没有不可以解决的问题
只有没有办法解决问题的人
我翻来覆去几个晚上
很想好好和父亲沟通
我太了解他了
有些事情不是和很容易和解的
是一种生活习惯和思想方面的差距
而且他很传统，我没有办法一直忍气吞生
我称认我是个脾气倔强的人，我也有我的想法和理念可是父亲总是和我有意见的冲突
这种生活环境我真的累了
当我决定搬出去住的时候我已经知道我没有“家” 了
包住婆。。昨晚和我亲述她的困扰
听了过后我不仅觉得自己的家事还是小事...
不论我身在何处，我还是有义务要侍奉父亲的孝心。
但是那不是愚孝
住了Bedok 几天，原来亲情真得难得可贵
前两天都是在branch打仗。。今天终于休假要好好放松紧张的心情
明天还要好好应战

last nite bao chu po or joanne had a late night chat with me on her bed after my shower on her mother's latest condition n on her conflict with her brother that hes unwilling to fork out extra even if he can afford it
n some of the things that she had to go through when she was heavily in debt and was indebted with a petty sister in law and brother.
that sister in law was really unkind and insensible
everytime i c joanne tear. i will cringe.
my guilty guilty will creep in .. coz i always attribute that if i was not that young and if my mum had not passed away suddenly when i was 10 . she wont have been so impulsive to get married to a man like my bro .
n as a lady myself. i m oso sure she crave for a nice man n a happy marriage herself
so when i see jianhao. and joanne.. i always feel that it was such a waste. n this shouldnt even have happened to them coz they r nice people
i was wearing this silly sally apron for work and my clients were asking me if i m a chef or if i got things to eat.. hahaha..
later will be meeting maureen in orchard to fix my nails.. to be mei mei.. so hiao ler ler me.. .
tong tong tong tong qiang.. xin nian lai le.....
yeah eat n eat .. gong gong eat..
i m going to b happy sam...no matter wat. coz panda will be always behind me when i fall ... i know i can count on him
cheers
1030 140109

fresh day ahead...

summary.. of yesterday we used 3 hrs to balance cash..
queue was killing . endless servicing
customers r impatient. as if we asked for it..
welll its going to be this way for 2 weeks. cat , lala actually tell me off for going for 1 hr lunch should auto go for half hour lunch
finally left ubi around 8.30 to reach toa payoh at 9.. had a veri late dinner.. till then i was so hungry wat i was eating oso. but i still eat anywhere coz tb treat me dinner .. was sashimi belly. tempura. some sushi along the way.. but it was tasteless to me anyway..
woke up ard 7 today coz boyboy was yelling at landlord.. oh man i cant roll over to sleep after that..
today i got this wear this mascot apron sally.. so doremon.. oso known as the ang bao gal.. who ask me to be ambassador of the bank.. good title only.. a lot of things to settle .. i stil got some left over unfinished service requests to tend to when i go to office today . thinking about it now make me so xian..
count down to cny.. exactly 13 days to cny.. abt 11 working days..
got to wear the silly apron.. coz tis yr they cut cost on part timers.. usually is the mei mei who wears it
we had customers yelling at us .. making comments on the dual queue which we have feeback to the boss. thomas.. but he refuses to make changes . making us suffer everyday coz customer feel imbalanced about the corporate queue ..the priority queue and then sometimes people take advantage of that queue and then everyone is screwed and everybody's day is spoilt by some trouble maker ..
landlord oso veri kelian.. i tink she oso reach home ard 10 odd after she balance cash at her branch ard 9 .. everywhere is crowded... i can understand how frustrating it can b coz i queue in posb n uob to change addresss and after standing there for a couple of minutes . i agree it becomes more n more pek chek..
so on sat.. i went to priority queue hahhahahahaha.. .lol to save time coz i left the boy at the library while i run errand..
this is my 3rd cny with th e bank .. n everyone is stressed now... cheers... looking forward to off day tml...

the price of independence

the price of independence is to take care of yourself on your own
cook your own meals to save $
wash your own laundry
iron my own clothes
take charge of my own expenses
pay rental every month
under the scrutiny of the landlord
n guess what my landlord text me today
later bring in the clothes and fold,iron my clothes. dont always log in computer. Now is unlike your own home,although it feels like home but must help me to save electricity also.. :)tku u for your understanding
well it stings. but then i have no choice when dad goes to kuching . i will get my panda to help me to move my desktop over to my new place or
i get cheap lappie that i can go out for free wireless internet acess
i guess it just takes slight adjustments in this household
n besides landlord is really a nice lady
unlike the fussy ones i met.. no invitation to friends and strangers..
hopefuly i will get my house soon and i can be in control of my own life eventually
get a nice man to settle down probbally 2 kids n lead happily..
i been thinking so much these days. it makes me age
n luckily, thankfully i've quite independent myself also before ,, so its really not much of a difference except to pay extra rental cost. the additional expenses spent on myself
we have auntie juicy. or josephine to help with some housework but i will do my mimual share to keep the little room tidy
i tried to clean the mirror at my cupboard its at least abt 20 or 30 odd yrs.. despite my efforts, it still cant be cleaned throughly so be it then
tomorrow will be a long hard day at work.. time to enjoy today fullly.

day 2 moving things out.. with panda's help

went to my bro's palce earlier
babysit rick @ panda 's place. we played wii together. too bad im nt cut out to be rock chick.
had a little bicker with panda earlier just because i gave him wrong directions to bro 3 place..
all men r all alike .. joanne mention tat its all like that .. tat its similar
both of us r quick tempered. but once we cool dowm we simmer down n apologise..
ok la got to go 85 mkt meet jie mei liao
0131hrs 110109
just got back from the supper had ah balling dessert for supper and chai chee pork porridge
was chatting about tat silly quarrel i had and debating if i m really in the wrong.
in case he didnt know ,been really bad with directions even before i started to learn to drive, so when iask my best friend , her reply was wats new. u been like that since young , y should he get angry with a person like you who has poor sense of direction.
dad hasnt call me for days. maybe hes still mad at me for making decision to move out
perhaps staying apart can foster a greater sense of closeness..
i dun regret making this decision,sometimes it s better to just meet each other occasionally to avoid conflict and tension
heard news that he might be changing the pad lock or sell the house. watever decision it is. he has to think of the long term consequences
i m carrying the name of an unfillal daughter term. but when its timeto settle dowm for me perhaps such title will diminish in time , as it passes
as such the title of a loose woman or a cheap slut flashes into myhead as i m not so keen these days to drop by his place . i cannot take it for long for such a title.both my sister in law were foriegners n in order to save up on rental cost, both of them cohabitate with my brothers. but this time round, my as usual hitler dad would not agree with his youngest daughter wanted to step out for better personal character development
i hope by staying apart i would learn to be even more independent,better handy man
maybe the accumulated unrest in me did erupted and then suddenly over petty issues , i manage to throw a tantrum at him after he showed some attitude over small matter
perhaps in my point of view , the disturbance at nite when dad has sleeping disorder and neighbours bothering my sleep and the recent lift upgrading and in additional to dad's ranting did not do much to reduce my irritation to my living environment
with worm pest. coming on sun to disrupt my sun beauty sleep it doesnt help much to contain my resentment gradually building up. being in the comfort of my own house but unable to diffuse negative emotions to people i detest , find it real fake to fake such friendliness
coming to such a decision was not easy as well. n sincei chosed this path i decided to make the best out of this stay
after cny would be desktop
he was fumming when i went back last nite
n he told me if i wanted to move out. no need to move back in future
in the discussion , he also mentioned that he will notattend mywedding in future n all sorts of nonsense n so forth
in some ways, hes double standards in the treatment to his sons via his only daughter
i have to follow his ground rules just becoz i hapen to stay with himtat is utter nonsense to me
i have a life
n i tink i will go towards it and work for it. would stop living in the shadow of other people
Feng - Zzz, jst once more part to get back on track.. says:
u hav a goal is good, but sometimes in life ar... it also abt accomdating and sharin lo..
Feng - Zzz, jst once more part to get back on track.. says:
we not prefect, we all hav flaw here n there.. n we try to make e best out of it lo
Feng - Zzz, jst once more part to get back on track.. says:
dun bear so much grudges la
Feng - Zzz, jst once more part to get back on track.. says:
not good for u also..
in a way i m oso helping him to make decisions since he s ina dilenma
tat none of the siblings want anyting to do with useless eldest bro
sometimes accomodating to the point that you dont want anything to do with it happily ro wash your hands out of such messy affair,it maybe a selfish proposal but then too much of it suffocates you. that you cant breathe , think or act normally or properly at times
i been considering whether to get back home tml to visit himor should i cool things out first
i m relieved thats one thing. yah n worried for him too since hes oso very blur at home

0231 time to head for bed, no point pondering back to the point of square one since decision has been made in the first place
its 0242 n i was chatting msn with feng..
he broke off with a gf of 4 yrs coz he cannot provide a stability chop for her exgf.. his ex couldnt wait coz he cant provide marriage to her.how sad..
so it voices down to the objective of going with someone which ideally results in a happy marriage i guess
pheng is a family man . n i guess i have a lot to learn from him as well as he manages and shoulders certain responsibilites and roles to support his mum. brothers and in school
as what my bro and lsb have advised me maybe i should really watch my tone and fiery mood swing and tempermantual attitude.. would try my best to keep it under control
tats how tings change.. how life n relationship is. its precarious, uncertain and unpredictable.. i still m cynical abt it aft broworm ended a 13yr relationship cum marriage
gf bf can breakoff,. husband n wife can divorce. even good men or good people can die overnite. like my mum whos been kind all her life. life goes on anyway
life still goes on
so no matter wat pull myself together
tml will be better. so i tell myself in life there r many choices so watever choice u make there r bound to be cons n pros n implication
so after a few attempts of wanting to find a gd one. it ends n turns out badly.
i m so immuned now. i dare not think too far these days
pheng's got a bunch of cool friends.. just like mine over 13 yrs of frienship n lately i discovered both of us grown over the years even more mentally stronger than before.
when things dun work out , wat if, i wont kill myself or blame myself for it . at least i tell myself i took a chance to test it out and even if hes wasnt the one, i have no regrets choosing him
the family sage has not turned to an ending n i hope to make a fresh start for 09. lookforward to it and earn lots of $ and be health y n happier than before
seriously i think i m a lot happier now than before . that i found someone . accomodating to me as well and hes caring altough signs of mcp is slighly prevalent.
to settledown before 30. wata thought.. i cant imagine myself .. cooking whole day in the kitchen , changing nappies. beinga gd care taker.. hope the day comes for me as well.. 0303

back in my new room for the new yr

after almost 1 hr of packing and unpacking .my bed is fixed
a taste of fixing my own bed . with my landlord 's help
well i had problem packing . i didnt have time to think much. i just wanted to take as much as possible.i realize how much iwanted to take with me as well .26 yrs packed in 6 bags. well ,, the route to independence so far
my landlord aka my ex sister in law. has been a pretty cool landlord so far
she has just gone to the hospital to take care of her jie mei who also happens to be a single mother.. first time mother so jia you to her.
a woman who insisted to raise a child on her own while she separated with the husband whos nt the biologial father of this child, and also according to joanne, the marriage failed becoz the husband couldnt father any kids and he was a womaniser to her friend as well
kinda sad,,,
second thought of marriage these days, relationship are precarious
not only that.. people ar getting really unpredicatable these days too.
sorted out with sharleen over lunch. 16 days to cny.. haizz..

after moving in n out like a grasshopper i had a taste of wats it like to stay with strangers for the past few days..
meeting fussy landlords. have a taste of wats like to stay with other people .n the harsh facts that people can chase us out, raise rental fees and be realistic with the tennants
just endeda social event with panda n his friends . today was Jane 's 27th birthday n we went to cafe cartel to chill
as usual panda is playing with badman while im bloggin in this entry..
moving out is after all a personal decision but it requires a lot of money and planing to do so..
way to go,, route to freedom n independence perhaps as what bro said . it come with a price
1221
090109

some mind boggling family issue that has to be resolved

LSB i support your decision to move out of this home cause 相见容易相触难 it might be a good thing to move out to have your own freedom, no more late night lockouts from your dad no more 有家归不得 and a chance for you to be independant. The lesser you see each other the more you might think and cherish each other. Slowly your dad will understand how good you are to him. Whatever help you need just let me know I'll try my very best to help you and my room is always there for you just like the old days hahahha!!!
when i saw her blog.. my load off my shoulders did decrease a little .. just text
my bf i wanted to fa xie on his xbox...theres a lot of issues to touch on.. like i was thinking whos going to take over the family house when dad pass on , the worm implication
i m typing this entry while the kiddo is playing with my bed.. a temporary mattress
e okto channel is an educational channel..
well there are too many things to worry in life.. time to take a break..
talk back at dad la
until hes veri pissed... burst out all sorts of nonsense
we had a little misunderstanding.. so there was some arguments here and there. justed ended a long talk with joanne whos my adviser
i known her since i was 6 n now i m 26 know her for 20yrs liao..i asked if she regreted,, then she told me she didnt and maybe tat god has a plan. that for he first 20-30yrs since she choose to marry my useless bro worm and then tings dun work out. shes fulfiling her fillal piety to them now..her biggest regrest was that she didnt have a chance to fulfil that to her father.
reason y i stay in old house is to watch over old man incase bro worm chase dad out n take over e house.that is a potential risk when we have such a scheming woman with my bro worm who doesnt know hes being exploited, yet he continues to be in such a relatioship
my bros have their families and frankly both their wives are not accomodating as well and the proposal of staying together sounds ideal but how sucessful can it be to counter worm problem....
when or if someting really happens to joanne , who will be made responsible or liable for her son. my useless bro, my dad, 2nd bro or 3rd bro or even myself.my bros dun daRE TO take liabilities coz my dad has a slight sleeping disorder problem n they have young kids in the family.well hope to make a best solution for the family issue by tomorrow
lately i realize i can be fake to all my clients , best smile , as plastic as possible but i cant do that to my family , its 2am in the morning now at joanne;s study table.. but i actually dread tomorrow. or rather later today in the evening.
when my 3rd bro sms me that blood is thicker than water. well i dunno how to comment on that. sometimes i realize my dad doesnt know how to solve issues, not clear minded, doesnt know when n how to priorities
poor planning
narrow minded, pessimissitc, negative thinking
n it always takes so long for him to change his mindset and act normally
i move out i m a bad daughter
istay in i m a sad n depresed person . eventually i cant take it on my own i might oso choose to avoid it
worrying can get so addicitve just as nagging
in the past i always live in the moment, lately after seeing some old frens settling down. i beging to ponder shouldi also find someone nice and then make plans .. buying a house . setting up a family. easier said then done , its a lot of small sarifises to honour a decision
n of coz i cant get married just to avoid family , its immature and irresponsible to myself as well,
moving out is not exactly a gd way becoz there are issues remaining there
i find tat both ways oso wont solve tis iss coz i m nt e source of the problem in the first plACE. Secondly i m nt liable for other ppl's problems or mistakes .disown the problem child which is nt a gd idea coz its not possible as well
to ask a parent to do tat.. it s simply asking a cow nt to produce milk
its no t fair at all living under the shadow of the others
0229

time to catch some decent rest..

0825 060109

just as i tot i will be uneasy in a new environment. i was very wrong.. had a gd nite sleep this time without anyone to nag me to wake up or to work..looks like tonie i will babysit rick while joanne is at csm meeting.. small issue, should nt be difficult

050109

i havent been in my own place after a big time quarrel with daddy
perhaps living on my own would be a gd chance to learn to be more independent and resourceful...to find a suitable place first .. after cny..

pests in the house

like most sun mornings. its usually peaceful and quiet. the pests never fail to irritate .. bro worm. gf and family are at my place.. n the excuse is to pray to the guan yin at my house. i hope he wont try his ways to coerce $ from my papa
i will try to hide in my room
1203

begining of an economic storm.. dark clouds are brewing

customers demand service. my day today as usual is a series of unreasonable rants and verbal abuse from bitter clients who lost $ in their investments.
and people who come in and whine n whine non stop without giving specific request.just as i was about to knock off , 2 or 3 clients were gving me hell ..
so i knocked off later than usual to sort with these people.
in times of recession and especially in this line.. people run out of patience and will complain more tha nusual over the slightest issue
things i got to learn
to say no n reject people firmly
to do proper handover
to learn to be more assertive
to be more emotionally stable during work
plans of going swimming is now dashed. the weather is not so good
its the time of the month .
cny is coming in less than 3 weeks.
there are lots of things to pack at home
i hope the hdb ppl will stop knockingon the lift upgrading soon. n the ppl from the cc stop singing those horrible song.. they really noise pollution that i cant even take a nice nap man.

we continue to suffer in silence or stand up for our own rights.. yeah mean.. i will bite back

today is a super lousy day
first tat byatch bark at me in the meetig room. then i got a series of dumb ass clients who r impatient . rude . demanding.. kpkp. knn ppl one ..
then i knock off late.. no dinner.. wait for boss to slowly slowly finish up work
attended a funeral earlier in hougang. take a train back.. now waiting for ms heng to fetch me to supper.
i wrote a nasty email to provide " feedback" on a veri low class coleague who barks like a dog.. she herself is not civilised . so in order to deal with 2 head snake. i should get back at her own way. shoot email . my boss n thaat byatch 's boss since we belong to the same team different boss. bring it on.. its either i stay or u leave or one of us get transfered
n if my centre manager also thinks she s correct then it doesnt make any incentive for me to stay with this team since i m so easily bullied n victimised.
n y should i .. continue to slog for them when she doesnt treat me with respect n take me for a fooll . get it its . hai gong.. hou lang gan,, machiam a dog .. for fuck. .for wat. e more i think abt it . e more bui song i m .. n its a fri nite man. panda is out with his brotherhood gathering. anyway i must find my sister.. fucking angry now.. luckily someting good happen.. cisco .. MR Gopi.. KOppiii my only fren in ubi.. also listen to me complain .. abt that byatch he oso suport me on the evil email.
next mon . boss will be in ..
so if she side with her ppl .. i opt for transfer internally no pt staying on then
if i continue to keep quiet. nobody knows how humilated it is .. n if i bark back at her. i m just like her crude and uncivilised
even if i was really veri pissed with her. i continue to support her n refer her deals oso. n treat my customer with equal respect.
only happy ting is gopi 's birthday cake. e chocolatecake make me happier
today customers are all palia.. all from dunno where . like we owe them 10 million ,,, out to get us.. front liners get it all the time n my day is like shit
glad to get out of shit hole.. i almost got the impulse to scold KNN at her in the meetin g room .but i decided to write email .. more strucured and can keep as reference a lot of pplp in the branch can be my witness .. n the best part is she didnt even apologise.. too bad la.. she doesnt have much manners.. chao ah lian..
erm took a pic of the green cherry qq.. just find it qutie cute.

0333hrs
3/1/08
we went this place in bedok road to have supper. i had cheese n mushroom with beef burger. i tot it was quite good
met up with cliff and ms heng. how would i describe this new friend. frankly he just love to sweet talk and erm.. veri suggestive in his language.. n perhaps he a llittle MCP oso. if a man doesnt how to treat his mother or a lady with dignity and respect . i really dunno how is he going to do for the gf. or hes just simply finding some fun out for a quick fling. if he is then clearly this man is = BIG FAIL.. treat a lady with respect.
when u comment ur own mother is stupid then u r no better.. imagine how much a woman has to go through so that she can carry this baby to full term.. its a lot of suffering and sacrifises to have a new life in this world.
although i have never been a mother myself . i tink it takes a lot for a girl to give up on certain priviledges and goals to forgone just to be mothers n have kids ..its a different concept these days kids of today. they r not like the ones like me.. fillal piety who cares abt that . its about selfless love.. u got to be kidding these days
papa was refering me consultant he went on his money luck.. n if he had managed to have a windfall he might not have a longer lifespan. y i rebuked at him , maybe if he had lesser money. n have more time for kinship. its also not bad. its only 10 bucks . perhaps i should go check it out
i told dad about my lousy day.. n he was telling me visit this consultant maybe he can provide some tips
在牛年里
牛转乾坤
以退为进
步步为营。。嬴！！！
有些时候以为有些事可以用钱来弥补一切的过失。
到了后来并没有
有了钱有怎样？
失去的更多
美好的回忆很好
现实的残酷更令人惊醒。愕然让你觉悟。
事事无绝对。
还是要为自己打算。。
好好过得更充实， 更精彩。。。
妈妈如果知道有一天我很幸福过每一天。。 一定会很欣慰。。
因为我很开心。。。有多一个很好的人为我操心。关心我。无微不至的款待。。包容和照顾。。
至少我终于有了。。一种说不出的幸福。。非笔墨能形容。。。哈哈哈哈。。。我疯了。。。早上4点还不睡觉。。疯婆子。。。碎碎念。。念力超好。。遗传爸爸。。。
想毕父亲多年父兼母职
爸爸多年都很硬朗从来没什么笑容 ，表情。。酷酷。。。内练的情绪埋藏在心里。。。
妈妈当年走得很突然。。我们以前的依赖是从前的幸福。。。直到现在是种动力。。0433 030108

2009 entry.. first entry .. my 5th yr with blogspot

feb 21 05.. was the day i started.. now at 1/1/09
i will be 26 this yr.. another 4 to 30..
with the training as a front liner . i manage to diffuse all possible amounts of anger and handle conflict objectively.
maybe handling a lot of emotional clients did manage t make me numb after a while..
women r afterall emotional creatures so when anger gets e better of us it controls us n make us do n say silly things

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男人劈腿。。。。 女人都必较吃亏。。
当场抓包。。

http://www.amymagazine.com/amyblog/siuhan
my fav writer


每個人的命運和際遇也不一樣。有些人，要走一條迂迴曲折的路，才終於找到幸福。另一些人，幾乎不需要經歷什麼，幸福一開始就找上門。

失戀時不要做的１０件事
１．糾纏
２．不要打無聲電話
３．不要再去看他的網誌或 facebook
４．不要隨便找個人來填補他的空缺
５．不要拿自己的幸福來報復他。
６．沒期限的沉淪
７．不要逼自己去忘記
８．不要無愛的性
９．不要把他送的禮物還給他
１０．不要相信自己說的話

有些心事，可以永遠深埋於心底。有時候，不是為了我，而是為了保護我在乎的人。
當你長大，你慢慢會學懂下面幾件事情：
有些人不必理會。無論他說什麼，做什麼，多麼無理，多麼無禮，多麼幼稚，真的不需要在乎。
有些人永遠成不了你的敵人，不必抬舉他。這種人只是自作多情，以為攻擊你，傷害你，就能夠被你所恨。
有些人不必等待 。我們心裡其實清楚得很，這個人不必再等了，只是我們放不下。

the first lunch was steamboat with bro 3 n family... the homecooked session didnt come true..
culinary lessons. omg.. my biggest challenge..