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its been a good gathering with the elders..

u realized tat u r grown up while ur seniors have aged.. e kids who were babies r now running wild in the garden

my sister in law, may has a huge extended family , out or personal obligation had to help her sister fix a place for her wedding.. back then shes only 19 , i know her when i was 15. now shes 27 n getting married in 2 days time..

its a overwhelming effect when e house is packed with people with nice aroma , smell of food n bbq smoke , e ambience is totally warming.

while driving , my bro discussed the stages of relationship n the art of keeping it alive n oso e passion with ur partner.. its like a long path frm knowing to understanding , planning n sustaining.. certainly takes 2 to make all this work.

somehow.. i tink i have done too much.. it seems tat even without me he can cope pretty well so i should just steer clear .. m i attracting attention.. seriously i dun tink i m... love is never fair .. some party has to give in more or accomodate more.. if tats e case , i rather nt put in tat effort.. an effort tats nt reciprocated .. rather insulting... maybe we r too different... should jsut leave him alone ... since he can cope so well ... y should i bother with another person whos nt interested , it would b a complete waste of my effort n time . i shouldnt stoop myself tat low.. after a while if tat person continues tis way persistently.. sometinf is wrong...its just nt the way to behave like tis.. any other gal would have reacted e same...

fine......

enough is enough.

i give up..

if hes nt worth the effort, trash it...

tell myself i can b a heartless bitch myself who couldnt care less of wats going on except on myself...

tats wat i m going to do..

n i trust myself i definitely can be one

sick of being some transparent element

tired of taking the lead

disappointed with some outcomes

just let it b..

arrange for more work

switch off my handphone sometimes

make myself incontactable

since i m taken so lightly.. it so mad n its just nt polite to ignore or nt return calls.

y should i make myself so conveniently located

KNN.. its so bloodly unfair..

i keep quiet. i m tying to c how he behaves .. but i m disappointed sometimes... i dun mention it. tat doesnt mean i m fine..

taken for granted.... everyting changes

do i look like someone who will be easily manipulated.. no way... !!!

since he has stired up the fire n made me so mad ...

lets play e waiting game man...